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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? military
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? cheater
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Army Basic Training

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a black married woman with children and about the same age as me. We were both transitioning into a different branch of the military and forced to go through basic training again. We had met at basic training after they separated us from the trainees that didn’t have prior service. We were given our own rooms rather than forced to sleep in the same building as the other trainees. When I first saw her I thought that she was attractive but you can’t always tell when in uniform how someone really looks.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After the trainees would go to bed the prior service people got to go back to their rooms. There were three of us, I shared a room with the other guy while she got her own room because she was the only woman. When we would go back to our rooms we would hang out and talk. One night she was telling me about how horny she was and then showed me some naked pictures of her. I was instantly hard because of our current circumstances. We both went to bed that night but then started sending text messages and planning our first hookup.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The first hookup happened one night. My roommate took a shower and then quickly fell asleep. I quickly grabbed my things to shower with, showered in the locker room, and then went to her room. She opened the door with a huge smile on her face. I walked in and dropped all my things on an extra bed in her room. I then grabbed her and pulled her into me. My hard dick pushed into her stomach and she reached down to rub it through my shorts. I walked her backward while making out with her soft lips, my arms wrapped tightly around her to ensure she did not fall backward. We got to the bed and slid her sweatpants off of her. With her in her T-shirt and underwear, I picked her up and she wrapped her legs around my waist. I sat down on the bed while we continued to kiss, our tongues intertwined and me sucking in her bottom lip every so often. My hands slid down her back and into lacy panties. Her ass was perfect. One hand grabbed her ass and my other hand slide further into her underwear. My middle finger quickly found her dripping wet pussy and slid into it. Her hands slid down my shorts and found my throbbing cock, wet with pre-cum already. She was so horny she tore her shirt off and huge boobs came dropping out. She had the biggest tits that I had ever had the pleasure of playing with. She then stood up and took my shorts and underwear off and then removed her underwear. Climbing back into my lap she then slid my hard dick into her wet vagina. She began riding my dick slowly and I grabbed her tits putting her nipples into my mouth. I could feel her pussy getting wetter. I wanted to cum so badly. She pushed me back and began grinding on me. I watched her face as she came so hard, her eyes clinched shut and her jaw dropped. She balled her hands into fists and I felt a gush of juice run down my balls. I had to push her off of me before I came inside her. She got on her knees and asked me to cum on her face. She loved to watch me cum. She grabbed my dick and jerked me off. Thick gushes of cum squirted out hard onto her face. She cleaned up and we laid there exhausted.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We continued to train and hooked up many more times while at basic training. It was a good stress reliever for us. We stopped talking after we both left basic training

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Discussed STI testing history

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? One friend, no judgement passed

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? I didn’t want to cheat

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The circumstances surrounding the hookup, being at Army basic training

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? being married

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? yes

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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