What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Florida
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? People Fucker
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100s
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Several
Army Buddy 1
How long ago did this hookup happen? 40 yrs
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Everett was in my Army unit. I had the hots for him as I expect others also did. He was 17 & gorgeous, pretty face, no body hair, a layer of baby fat, soft skin, a great bubble butt, a large cut cock that I fantasied about, shorter than me, tight large balls, light skin & hair. very shy type, would faint when getting shots, I made sure to stand behind him in the shot line, so as to catch him, and cop a feel.
He told us he lived by himself since he was 12, in a trailer in a small town. His Mother had a job in a city several hours away. She sent money & visited him once a month. I think she was in the sex industry, would have liked to meet her. Got to see him often when he was showering, dressing and shitting. I caught him eyeing me a few times. Later on, we all got a furlough and he lived a couple of hours from me. I got his address, no phone.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When I got home, made plans to visit him. Borrowed a car & drove to his place. Got there 8 AM. He was home, said we have to leave right now, jumped in my car & said drive. No other words were spoken. I was mystified. I said where too, he said a motel about 5 miles away. Said to get a room. Asked me if I wanted to fuck him, “yes”.
He then told me that guys come around expecting favors. That he lets guys fuck him for money, been doing it for years. He joined the Army so he could be free of them, although he likes gay sex. He had a reputation in the area that he wanted to lose. I asked him how many daily visitors? At least 10 a day. About 40 guys used him. I was dripping.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went into the room, and we were all over each other. Frenched & feeled, and I had to fuck that butt. The remainder of that day, that night to the next afternoon, we did not leave. Constant fucking, sucking, and frenching. His butt was pink. He could shoot a niagara falls of cum. Saw him back at the unit. He told me I was not the only one that had visited him. Three years later, I went to his trailer, did not live there anymore, lost track of him.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sex
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? None
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Much
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting
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