What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Florida
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Many
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Several
Army Buddy 3
How long ago did this hookup happen? 40 yrs
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Frank was in his early 20s, lanky sort of thin. Knew him in the army. Saw him nude many times in the barracks. He had a long cock & nice ass. Not hairy, no fat. Got an impression then that he played with guys. He nor I never made a play. Got together after Army & went on a long car trip to visit another buddy.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We stopped at a motel for the night. Showered & went to bed. He took one twin bed & I the other. Woke up in middle of the night with a hard-on & horny. How do I hit on him? It was also freezing the room, blankets in a dresser drawer. Woke him up & said I was freezing. He said he was also, he said find the blankets. I lied and said there was none. He could see that I had a hard-on, made sure I was nude standing next to him. He said take your sheet and get in bed with me, that would keep us warm. I did.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He started to spoon me and I could tell he had a hard-on. It was pushing on my butt crack. He started to hump, his hand went around and fondled my hard-on. I said fuck me!
He rolled me over on my belly, got on top, fed his rod into my ass hole, & humped like a bunny.
After, I rolled him onto his back, lifted his legs up high and wide and fucked him. We hardly slept that night. Stayed for two more days. We fucked and sucked.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Good
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Later, some
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Did him & his later wife for a few years
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Very interresting
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