Current location: Memphis
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Deist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 125
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? An older korean lady.who was my neighbor.she was divorced. We knew each other as neighbors,i had done some work for her.move furniture etc.there had been no flirting.just neighborly friends.i thought she was an attractive woman. I thought she was older than me i was 30
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? About 2 weeks after my wife had left and filed for divorce.she knocked at my door and asked if id like to go with her to this local club for a beer.i said ok,i figured she just wanted someone with her so she wouldnt get hit on by guys if she went alone.we were at the club for a short while listening to the band ,when out of no where she says “jim,would you like to make love to me ?” I was shocked by this as i had no idea she was interested in me ! I said “im honored and surprised ! Yes i would love to as i’ve never had asian before.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? we went back to my place had some wine and made out on the sofa,i led her to the bedroom where we got undressed she had a slim firm body.and i initiated foreplay by kissing her neck and working my way down to her small but pert breasts eventuall going down on her ,she came several times this way and was very loud in her passion and when i fucked her she screamed so much i was afraid people would think i was killing her.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? she came many times and i came also
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? we figured we were both clean since i had had no one but my ex and the same for her.pregnancy wasnt a concern because i had had a vasectomy some years before.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? i guess she just wanted to get laid and i was dpressed over my divorce
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Just a few beers and some wine
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We saw each other after that but no more hook ups.i was hoping she would want more but she never asked again
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? very much so especially when she just asked me out of the blue like that
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no regrets
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? best was my first asian and let me experience fun recrational sex with no commitment
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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