by autosome

Gender: male
Age: 48
Race/ethnicity: British Jewish
Location: London
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: parent
Relationship status: married
Religious affiliation: atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 300+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Asleep in a Puddle of Beer

How long ago did this hookup happen? 25 years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? one night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Don’t not know her, she was plump with curly hair

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was working as night club barman, and as it later transpired I had served the girl drinks and had called her darling and had been complimentary to her. The night in question I wasn’t working and had drunk excessively and was snoozing face down in a puddle of liquid at the bar. She came up to where I was woke me and started chatting, we started kissing and I said lets go home she agreed and we left the nightclub. We walked past a park and stopped and started kissing further which led to sex on a soccer pitch. This took around 30 – 60 mins from initial talking to penetration

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Fellatio and penetration. Missionary and on top positions. I have no recollection of good or not. It ended with me faking ejaculation by pulsing my penis.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No precautions on my part

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? It was sex, I recall no reasons other than we wanted to do it.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? both drunk.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I walked part of the way to her home, we had sex two more times on a wall and on a bench. I then hailed a cab and paid for it.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, I saw no reason to tell anyone about it

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? I believe so. I bumped into her a few years later and she expressed no regrets about it either. There was a modicum of embarrassment as we recalled how we knew each other.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? There was no best thing or worse thing

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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