by The captain
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Business owner
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Experimental
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? About 75
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Awesome Weekend Getaway
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last summer
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a hot little blonde who I had barely met on the ferry ride over to block island in Rhode Island. I had never laid eyes on her before then.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So me and 2 of my my buddies were on the ferry ride out to block because he had left his 48’boat out there the previous weekend. We were going out to spend 3 days on his boat and then drive it back to New York where he normally kept it. It’s 10 o’clock in the morning and we’re having the first of many drinks already when I spot this hot little sexy blonde sitting with her friends at a table talking.she gets up to go to the bathroom so I get up and get in line for the bar this way she will have to walk by me on the way back and maybe I’ll get a chance to say hi to her. It worked perfectly but we just said hello and that was about it, but at least she noticed me and I thought she really had a nice body and it looked like she liked to party – and that’s what I’m all about.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So the weather is beautiful and we’re having a great weekend hanging with the guys and drinking, just doing our thing. We party all day and then go out for a nice dinner, just the 3 of us, and now it’s about 10 o’clock – we go to a bar that has a band and it’s where everybody goes to on block island. We walk in and I see her and her friends at the end of the bar, so I said to my buddy, “Isn’t that the chick from the ferry?” Without one word he makes a bee line for her and I get pissed off and say fuck him, so I go right over to her and start talking to her even though he was already there. She was just like I thought, a big partier, and we hit it off right away. She was drunk and so was I . We had a bunch of drinks with the group, and then I took her out to the dance floor where I started making out with her. She was grinding on me and she was so fucking hot; I really couldn’t believe my luck. We went back to the bar and her girlfriends wanted to leave, but she said she said she was staying so right then I knew I was in. She and I left the bar to make the short walk to the boat. My buddies went to anther bar to give me some time. We went into the boat and I immediately start going after her and she was all about it. I had her on the dinette table and took off her shirt and jeans; she had no panties on so I laid her down and started licking her sweet blonde pussy and it tasted delicious. I’m an expert pussy eater and I ate it like it was my job. She came right on the table; then, she got down on her knees and started sucking my rock hard cock, and wow, was she good. She deep throated me and sucked my dick like a professional. Now I got the rest of her clothes off and she had a superb body. So I take her into my stateroom and start fucking her missionary and she’s cumming like, crazy and then I flip her over and fuck her doggystyle and now she’s cumming more and screaming a lot and loving it. I’m getting close now and then I fill her tight little pussy up with cum and we fall asleep. I wake up at some point a couple of hours later and have a nice hard on again so figure what the hell – I get on her again and start fucking her some more. My buddies had come back and she was so loud; I had left the door open so they were watching us go at it but this girl didn’t care at all. We fell back asleep and then went at it again in the morning but I was having a hard time cumming again, so she started blowing me and that did it. I came right in her mouth and she swallowed every drop. We hung out for a few hours and then she left but we met again at a beach bar in the afternoon. She took me back to her hotel and we fucked again. She was so hot and loved to fuck so much that I didn’t ever want to leave her.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Well of course I got her number and the next week I texted her and she asked if I was married and I told her that I was. She was a bit upset but she said she would still see me anyway. We hooked up about 5 or 6 more times and I was really liking her a lot but I couldn’t sneak away from my wife enough for her, so she told me she wouldn’t see me any more and that was it.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just my closest friends.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Well the best thing for me was that it was fantastic sex, and also since I’m getting a bit older now I proved to myself that I still have a little game left in me.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, not in any way.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Just that I think no matter what age we are, men and woman still love to hook up in bars and fuck like kids.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is very alive and well still and I’ve been doing it for most of my life. I’ve met a lot of nice, interesting women.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it; it’s very interesting and I have to say I read it every day.
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