by Lucy

Gender: Female
Age: 23
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Dayton, Oh
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Barista/Student
Relationship status: Divorced
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Just getting into women after the separation.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Awkward Kinky

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months

How would you best classify this hookup? one-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him online and we hit it off pretty quickly, and after texting for a few days we both agreed that we wanted to meet up. Our conversations suddenly turned dirty and we got to know the details of what we both like sexually. I ended up going to his house late one night with the sole purpose to have sex with him. I was nervous but excited.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We pretty much knew what we were getting ourselves into, and it took about 5 minutes of us watching the movie before we were making out and getting our clothes off.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He knew I was into kinky stuff, but he came off TOO strong. He was bossing me around like crazy, but almost like he was playing a part. In the middle of giving him some of the best head I’ve ever given, he grabs his phone and says he has to take a picture! I stop right there and insist that he will take no pictures. He agreed, but I could tell he was very disappointed. I don’t recall if I had an orgasm. He went down on my for about 2 seconds then roughly fucked me until he came.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? He used a condom.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to do something spontaneous and he talked dirty like a pro.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? He and I smoked a little bit of weed when I first got there.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, I was definitely disappointed. The sex wasn’t the worst, but he was awkward about it before and after. He definitely wanted to see me again, but I just wasn’t feeling it.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my sister and she thought it made a good story.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, very consensual.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t regret it at all. I’ve had worse hookups from real jerks. He was a genuinely nice guy, but in the bed, we just didn’t click.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was that I got to experience some things I’ve only ever fantasized about, and we talked about them before we had the hookup. The worst was that we were both shy and maybe a little awkward about it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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