Current location: USA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: In a relationship
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
A Whole New World
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Friends with Benefits
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A fit, white, rebellious, tattoo covered biker hottie. We went to elementary school together and through mutual friends met back up in high school. We’ve been friends ever since. He’s pretty nomadic, and goes where he pleases so when he’s in town, we see each other. We never hooked up until after high school but once we did, we realized that the chemistry was perfect and have been doing it ever since.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He was in town, we got together. We were just hanging out in the living room, both pretty tired. He pulled me against him so we were spooning. No words were exchanged. I did however reach down and squeeze his upper thigh. I knew what I was doing. I felt him begin to get hard and he firmly pulled me up against him.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I couldn’t resist, I rolled over and kissed him. I could tell he was tired, but he kissed back. He firmly pushed his thigh between my legs, applying pressure to my vagina. I responded with a few gentle neck kisses and a nibble on the ear lobe. He moaned. He never moans. Quickly after, he jumped off the couch and decided that a shower sounded good. In the shower he fucked me like he’s never fucked me before. I was holding my ankles at some points, pushed against the wall at others. Sometimes his hand was firmly around my throat and at others he had a fist full of my hair. He kissed me softly while he held me fiercely. The entire time was this euphoric, on the brink of orgasm, power struggle between lust and love, trust and control.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes and yes. We were both thoroughly pleased.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I saw him in a new light. It wasn’t the first time we had sex, and it wasn’t the first time we had rough sex but this time was different.
It was the closest goddam thing to art that I think sex can get. We are still in the same boat relationship wise. I’m still cheating on my boyfriend with him. I’m addicted. He gives me something I don’t get anywhere else (I’ve tried, my boyfriends have either been opposed or shitty at it).
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about this hookup was that I felt like I found myself through it. Like I finally admitted to myself something I had known all along but kept hidden. Also the sexy was pretty fucking amazing. The worst part is that he’s not always here. He’s planted this seed in my brain and I know what I want now but everything else falls short. He would date me if I gave him the chance. But I’m so afraid it would ruin this thing that we’ve had going on for the last 5 or 6 years.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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