What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 47
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Brisbane
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Accountant
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Experimental
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Bathhouse First Time
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? There were a few guys, younger than me. Mainly fit bodies. I met them at the bath house and have never seen them before or since.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hook-up took place in a bathhouse/sauna. I found out about it and decided to give it a try.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well I am bi-curious. I heard about a sauna/bathhouse nearby, so I thought I would check it out. I went in undressed and put on a towel. I wandered around for a while then found a video room where guys were wanking off. I sat down and realised that everyone was wnking the guy next to them…..so I did it to the guy beside me. I enjoyed feeling his hard cock. He started wanking me and I got hard instantly. After a while he got up and tried to suck me off with no protection, I declined and he was a bit pissed. I went to the steam room next. I sat down opposite these 3 guys…one was sucking another and the third was rimming the guy sucking…I don’t get off on rimming but watching them doing this infront of several others made me horny. I started wanking…a guy came over and took over for me…It was nice. Once again this guy wanted to give me a blowjob…and was not happy when I declined. A few guys were watching us and waiting on the other side of the room. I went over and grabbed their cocks, the guy that was wanking me reached between my legs and wanked me at the same time…..so I had two cocks in my hands and was about to cum…I loved feeling the hardness. After a while I went to have a shower. A fit younger guy came up and asked to go to a private room. He wanted to watch me wank..so I was really turned on knowing this guy thought I was hot. He was bigger than me about 9″ so watching his huge cock made me horny. I got a condom and put it on him and started sucking him off. I could feel him getting harder and bigger. I was almost gagging….after a while he wanted to dry hump me….I gave it a go and he came, and I didn’t. I didn’t like the experience of dry humping that much.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close.
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I feel horny now writing about it…may visit again!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, no penetrative sex happened.
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, learning new things, experimenting. Everyone else was/is doing it.
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent.
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat
Why do you regret this hookup? Probably would have been better to hook up with one or 2 guys only. I would be a bit pickier
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I felt like a porn star!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The lack of safe sex going on….really made me nervous, that is why I left
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yeah I am even more conscious about safe sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Cool to hear other stories
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