What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Wisconsin
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Full time college student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 17
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Just this one
Bachelorette party meets a bachelor party in same hotel
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a tall attractive guy with dark brown hair, and eyes. He was slender but had a nice body! I didn’t know him at all until that night. Took a cab to the bar from the hotel we were staying at. One of the girls left her purse on the garbage can while waiting for the cab. We exchanged a few works with the bachelor party and told them where we were going. We were about to spend the money and go back to get the purse when all of a sudden the guys showed up with her purse and said they had to return it for us! There was 6 or us and 4 of them! Us girls got them a shot for being so nice and saving us the money for the cab to the hotel and back. Me and this guy didn’t really talk to much at the first bar but just a few words here and there. Until we were getting ready to leave bar one and he was smoking a cigarette which I do on occasion when I’m drinking heavily. And it ended up being the same kind I normally smoke when I do it. He was nice enough to share and we just kept talking from there.We all ended up leaving together and sharing a cab ride to a different bar on the other side of town. At this point I didn’t know any of there names. At this point us girls have been drinking since we got to the hotel around 130pm so needless to say we were all drunk. I knew I had a boyfriend and I never thought anything would happen but we were all dancing having a good time taking shot after shot after shot. I started dancing with this guy and the other girls and I was just grinding on him and I could feel his cock as we were dancing. Well the floor was so sticky my shoe had broke so this guy had carried me to the cab so I didn’t have to walk on the nasty sticky floors she proceeded to sit next to me into he cab and we talking I finally asked him his name (andy) and we begin talking more.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hook up was starting after we got yelled at by security for being to loud going back to our rooms so all the guys and girls grabbed there drink of choice and we went into the woods! At this point me and Andy were getting closer and it definitely was not planned. There was a point we all stopped and me and Andy looked at each other a started making out but it was quick since I didn’t want anyone to see! Drinking more and walking into the woods I was holding Andy’s hand and it were cold so I took his hand and put it into my shirt touch my breasts because it was really warm down there. So needless to say I think we both instigated it. Well all the girls went to bed and I had stayed up with the guys and was talking with Andy brothers and they were saying goes how they could tell he was into me and one of there friends was being a total cock block because he was married and kept bring up that I was in a relationship.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After the other guys went upstairs to their room me and Andy stayed back by his car and just started making out all hot and heavy and he was an amazing kisser. He pinned me against a car and I could feel him starting to get harder and being as drunk as I was I became super horny. Well we decided to go inside but we didn’t want to go to my room because of obvious reasons and the guys were still awake and we could go in there yet! So we made out in the hall and his hands started to wonder down my pants and I loved every minute of it! I looked up at him and told him we needed to go have sex in his car because I couldn’t take it any more! I wanted it so bad and so did he. Well we got to his car and i unbuckled his pant and grab his cock for the first time and it was so big and that made me want it so much more and we got into the car land the seats wouldn’t lean back but we definitely tried having sex with me on top of him but at this point it was starting to get light outside so we had stopped so people didn’t see us. His cock felt so good inside me I just wanted it so we went back to his room and a guy was up so we just laid on his bed and kinda went to sleep for maybe 20 minutes and he wakes me up by bringing his hands down my pants it felt so good! And we started having sex. I’m moaning with his big cock inside me, and he’s like shh. So we didn’t wake up his brothers and there friend! Well it was hard to stay quite so I started digging my nails into his back with him on top of me it was so good! With every thrust I was getting sent over the top and finally orgasmed and we weren’t using a condom and I haven’t been on birth control for a while. Which is just a bad situation so I knew he was about to cum so I told him not to do it inside me at he didn’t but his brother woke up and was like yeah that would be bad. He’s like want you thought everyone was sleeping you guys weren’t being quite! During this sex he was licking my 34 ddd breasts which turns me on so much. He was telling me how much he loved my breasts and how tight my pussy is and how he loved ever minute of it! We then proceed to fall asleep cuddling and got woken up 2 hours later by one of the girls looking for me so we could check out of the hotel!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Nothing happened after me leaving I didn’t see them before they left!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Plan B / Emergency contraception
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex was amazing and making out was great!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didn’t get his number or anything and I wish I would have!
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No not at all it was great!
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? If you want to have sex do it don’t let anyone judge you!
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I’m all for casual sex!
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