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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Boston
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Back-Up Booty Call

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is a Greek guy with piercing green eyes, thick dark hair and beard, with a tall and lean–but muscular–figure. A mutual friend introduced us as we were pre-gaming to go out with friends. I was attracted to him immediately, but he said he said he was going to be my wingman for the night.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He encouraged me to flirt and dance with guys at the bar and often brought over guys to introduce me, but I wasn’t really feeling it. I just wanted to dance and drink with friends. We eventually danced together and started grinding, which turned me on, but I wanted to text an old fuck buddy. He saw me texting my fuck buddy and pulled me in close and said, “If that doesn’t work out, I’d love to take you home with me and fuck your brains out.” I abandoned the text to my fuck buddy and went home with him.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Halfway back to his place, I remembered I was on the last day of my period. I stopped to tell him and he shrugged it off and said he would just put a towel down. I did a little striptease for him as he told me he loved my ass and tits. His dick was much bigger than I thought it would be. He fucked me once in missionary and kept telling me how tight and wet I felt. He was so big that I could feel him hitting my cervix, but I didn’t want to tell him to stop so he could cum. We both wanted round two soon after, but he told me he rarely cums more than once that soon. I took that as a challenge. I told him he could fuck me doggy style and cum on my ass and he was all for it. I could still feel him hitting my cervix which kept me from enjoying it, but he came faster than the first time so it was over soon. By this time it was four in the morning and I wanted to go home but I was too tired and he said I could stay over. I woke up a few hours later, said thanks and bye (without a kiss), and left. It hurt to sit for like three days.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was a little worried since our friend groups overlap, but it hasn’t changed anything. I knew he was just a one-night-stand and didn’t expect anything out of it. We didn’t exchange numbers, but he friended me on Facebook a couple days after when a friend posted a picture of us tagged. I left the city for the summer, but I would be down to see him again when I’m back

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told the friend who introduced us, and my best friend. Both were happy for me

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? I regret not communicating my discomfort during sex, but I still enjoyed it

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His size and skills surprised me in the best way. He knew how to turn me on and tease me

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The pain after haha

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really. I think it has made me more inclined to look for guys in my extended friend groups to hook up with, rather than through an app or at a bar, because they have credible reputations through friends that I know and trust.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? At this stage in my life, I’m not ready for a relationship. I am a young woman in a big city with college and work to worry about. This kind of low-pressure hookup was exactly what I needed.

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