What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 44
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Ohio
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Lawyer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Back in Touch
How long ago did this hookup happen? Less than a year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Married going thru a divorce
How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Kate is an extremely good looking woman, tall about 5’10”. Outstanding legs and butt, Long curly jet black hair and dark olive completion. Her breasts are medium side but she has these large nipples and large areoles.
We used to hook up in HS, in fact she took my virginity. She was going with an older guy and was engaged but didn’t know if she was ready. We sort of experimented together.
The sex we had back then was ranged from passionate lovemaking to down and dirty fucking. She taught me a lot and was always up for something new and different.
Well I knew that I wasn’t ready for a serious relationship at that time but it was alway fun and exciting with her and I think in our youth that the sneaking around made it all the exciting.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? At our 25th class reunion. We were both there alone. It was an all day affair, I think that the planners sort of wanted to relive our youth of beer parties out in the woods as we had it at a private campground, a pig roast. And such. It started on a Friday afternoon and would go into the next day.
It started out innocently enough, just catching up, as we had not seen each other for many years, Then I don’t know how but we started talking about old times and she asked if I’d like to relive some of it. Next thing I knew is that we kissed and she said that if I had a room maybe we could go there.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? While it was a long ride, she stroked my thigh and rubbed my cock the entire time. Once we got into my room the clothes came off and we were in bed making out like teenagers.
She was in very good shape for a woman that had 5 children, her body was little changed, except that she used to have the hairiest bush, but now it was groomed, still hairy except around her pussy lips
After we gave each other oral and she had a powerful orgasm, it was just like the old days.
Then we went at it missionary, passionate loving and when she came she wrapped her arms and legs around me and squeezed, that was so hot.
We talked a little and then asked if I would do her doggie as her husband never did. It was exhilarating it have someone that actually enjoyed sex and was confident enough to vocalize their desires.
We proably spent 4 hours having sex, cuddling, kissing or laying in each other’s arms and talking.
Eventually we made it back to the reunion. We sort of slipped apart for a while but then when we meet up again, she wisphered in my ear that she wouldn’t mind slipping away again if I was in the mood.
Round 2 was just as great.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Well we both drove to my motel, so we didn’t need to go back and get her car. We fell asleep in each other’s arms. I haven’t slept wrapped up like that for years and it was so good.
We talked about what we had done. I live a few hundred miles away and now that my parents passed I don’t get home, she wasn’t worried as her husband didn’t talk to any of our classmates. We knew that we didn’t have a future. We do stay in touch and sext regularly. I wished I lived closer as I know that she’d be up for some more.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex was great, but the emotional connection made the sex all the better. That a woman still found me desirable was a tremendous ego boost
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wish that I had finished my divorce but that my wife had already checked out of our marriage. Also it would have been nice to live closer as I know that we both would have like to continue seeing each other on some level
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Well it certainly confirmed my decision to divorce. To know that there was someone out there that so willingly share their body with abandon, I had lived with an iceberg so long I had forgotten how good sex could be.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Well it certainly has opened me up to the dating scene again
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I don’t know, but I think that I am more confident now
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