by Ian H
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Vanilla
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 28
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a fit Caucasian brunette, China doll look; her face was kind of “unique” in her pics but her great eyes, quality education and spinner body were a turn-on. She had the persona of a law professor-turned porn star. She was maybe just a year or two out of college. We met through a particular sex hookup website. She seemed kind of crazy but I was only after a casual fuck. And so was she. She seemed like she needed a departure from the boredom of her life. Maybe had some issues that she was working out since she seemed to be on a tight leash from her parents who lived in her town. We had spoken by phone only briefly – we knew how to cut to the chase of meeting for a tryst.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We started chatting online and then moved it to texting. We both had small windows to meet since we both travel for our jobs. Her roommates were home at the only time we could get free. Neither of us had time to go to a hotel – so we decided to fuck in the car. I picked her up near her place in a very affluent part of town. She was hotter than her pics… had a short dress on that looked like it cost several hundred dollars in itself. Her face was much better than online.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went to a secluded area of a park near the edge of the woods. There were other cars nearby because people were walking their dogs there. We made small talk about our personal problems (because we were both anonymous) in the front seat and I started to finger her under her skirt. We hopped into the back seat. I yanked down my shorts and she started devouring my hard cock like a porn star, moaning and slurping. It was some of the best head I ever had. Then we squeezed ourselves across the seat and started some furious fucking. I hiked up that pricey skirt and exposed her sweet shaven peach and stuck in my rod. She fucked like a porn star– constantly begging me for my cock to slam her and staring at me with those big blue eyes. Meanwhile, outside the car, people were approaching the parking area with their dogs and could probably hear us moaning. I loved it. It was some of the best sex I ever had. She had the look of a sex demon, a hunger for fucking, which I loved. When I was ready to cum I took off my rubber and leaped up on the seat and aimed my cock at her mouth, where she lapped up several jets of cum that fell across her nose and chin. We had a great time.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We got dressed and I drove her home. As we left the park we heard police sirens approaching the park. I think we got away just in time. A few weeks later I tried to set up another date but when I had to cancel because of an emergency she got mad and I never heard from her again. I’ll remember it as one of my best hookups ever.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To cheer myself up, Power / Dominance, Boredom, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Unadulterated, anonymous fucking with an element of danger to it.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Doing it in a car.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. It showed me that casual, even anonymous fucking is more common than people think.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? When I was younger casual sex was taboo. Now it seems mainstream.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great – I’m sure I can tell more stories.
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