What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60+
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? retired
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Bag Boy – Part One

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was about 30 years old, good shape and very friendly. We first met at a grocery story where I worked.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She instigated it with a blowjob. I just provided the dick.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I was 18, I was working as a bag boy in a grocery store. It was about 8 pm and a woman about 35 was checking out. I was bagging her groceries and she was very friendly. I carried 2 bags out to her car. When we got to her car she asked me to put the bags in the back seat. Then she asked me if I could try to start her car because she was having a problem with it. I got in the driver’s seat and she got in the passenger. I was waiting for the kegs when she reached over and started rubbing my cock through my pants. It didn’t long for me to get a boner. She asked if I wanted a blowjob and of course, I said yes. I felt like I was the luckiest guy in the world. She unzipped my pants and got my 6 inch cock out. I never had a blowjob before, my girlfriend would only give me a hand job. She started sucking on my dick right away and I thought she was going to suck my balls up through my dick. In about 2 minutes I came in her mouth. She said I tasted good and she gave me her business card and told me to bring a friend over to her house and we could have some fun. When I went back into the store I felt like everyone was looking at me and I looked down and my pants were unzipped. I still had a half a boner.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I took my best friend over to her house. This will be another hookup story.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To my best friend and he want to go to her house.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting my first blowjob.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? no

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like it.

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