What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Costa Rica
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Marketer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? More than 200
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Bang my ass
How long ago did this hookup happen? A week ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ve been off and on Grindr this year, perhaps expecting something extraordinary will happen, and it did.
I opened my Grindr about 2 weeks before this guy started talking with me, he had no picture but the only thing that was clear was his 4.20 hobby, so when he said “Hola” for the first time also sent along a picture of him (not his dick).
He had this Swagger look which actually made me feel really interested in him, you know, when you are a ‘fancy’ gay guy, you don’t usually get to hook-up with those kind of guys, since you don’t look ‘masculine enough’.
We started chatting decently, he was really ghetto/gangsta when writing, every time a reply of him came with this hood-like speech, I felt that I wanted him even more.
After two days of little but good chatting, he sent me a picture of his great looking 19cm dick, since I’m mostly a bottom, I felt how my ass was already craving to have him inside of me.
I replied back with some asshole pics and he was certainly more interested in fucking me, I was closer to my goal.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Three days after we started chatting, he said he really wanted to fuck me.
We planned for Monday, but got caught up with work in the office so that day didn’t happen.
We tried next day with no success and all my ‘hopes’ were gone.
On Thursday, he texted me saying he was close home and he could pass by, I was tested that day and the result was NEGATIVE, which made me really happy, when he texted me I said I wasn’t available at home, but I was I just wasn’t feeling like fucking.
Then he tried one more time and I said, yeah whatever, come on over.
I was really hoping he wouldn’t arrive, but he did.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When he arrived, looked like he was high on something-anything. I didn’t care, I was already smoking weed and I was really well.
One beer for each of us, went to my room and we started chatting about computers and stuff we had in common.
Then he asked me for a key, I knew where this was heading, and the he had this small bag with coke.
He inhale and I couldn’t help but feel tempted, and went for it.
We already had smoked weed, so this was somewhat counter effecting it.
I have never had sex with Coke but I was really up to do whatever it took to make this fuck GREAT.
I knew he was into jockstraps, I went ahead and started taking my clothes off until i was left in my black sneakers and jocks.
He started staring at me in a very sexual way, I felt desired and I knew that I was making him real horny.
Went ahead and gave him a blow job, I loved to see his face and his moaning when I was deep throating.
Then I sat my ass (jocks/sneakers on) on his face and made him eat my ass real good.
He couldn’t stop, I felt how his tongue was up my hole and I really was looking forward to his dick.
But I wanted to turn him real bad, so I went ahead and put some jockstrap on him as well, which made him harder and I loved to continue blowing him while I was on my knees.
Then, I had a condom close to my bed, put him on and tried to fuck me, but I felt how his dick didn’t get along with it.
I had him a bit inside without condom inside, then we sniffed a little more and I went for another blow.
Couldn’t help it, I was really enjoying it, I really wanted to sit on his dick and fuck myself, coke and weed certainly were helping, I was hard as fuck.
I didn’t want to have unprotected sex, my test was negative, I couldn’t afford anything, but fuck it, gimme that dick.
I sat on his dick unprotected and we started fucking, I felt his dick inside my ass and how it was touching every part of me inside, and I wanted to go deeper.
I started humping on his dick by myself, and I felt him getting harder than before.
*open popper bottle and inhale*
I was on four, ass up ready to be penetrated, he ate my ass one more time and fucked me, this time super hard, with popper’s heat in my head, I felt i could take him forever and I wanted his balls and everything inside of me.
Then, against the wall, he fucked me like never before, i felt his balls against my ass clashing and it enjoyed every hit i was receiving.
Then, face to face fucking with his face all crazy and his dick real hard, he came, there was cum all over my body, my bed, my face and my mouth.
I also came, which made of this a great experience indeed.
As I write these lines I keep thinking of texting him and had him over tonight, but it’s certainly something I want to repeat, but shouldn’t do.
… is this the end?
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I can’t help but feel horrible about having unprotected sex, I did enjoy how he fucked me and I would repeat everything one more time, but only if protected.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, Power / Dominance, Submission / Relinquishing power, I didn’t want it but was unable to stop it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish, Cocaine, Poppers (Amyl Nitrate)
How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Cocaine, Poppers (Amyl Nitrate)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My two best friends, but I didn’t have the courage to tell them this was unprotected.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Unprotected sex, that’s all.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Experiencing something totally new.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Unprotected sex, that’s all.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I don’t want to behave like this ever again.
Right now my phone is being ‘flooded’ with sexual propositions, which I have to reject in order to avoid getting an STD.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I would love to go over all of this again, but partnered.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Sex is great of course, but it really deviates our attention from important matters.
I would love to be able to buy a pill which will inhibit my sexual desire so I can focus on being a good human.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This is awesome! Altough, it makes me feel like I’m not the only one doing sexually dangerous things, I’m also concerned about the human’s race destination…
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