What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity?
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Manager at a tech firm
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Kinky, experimental and sexually curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Banging a Bong
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We matched on tinder at around 7 AM on Friday morning. Like any other Bengali girl, she flaunted her curves in the pics and her profile mentioned she was new to the city.
I was sporting a morning wood and wanted to get off, and he was horny and alone in her hostel room. We started flirting, which moved to a discussion on our favorite genres of porn and positions. We exchanged Instagram profiles, flirted a bit more, and she ended up sharing her nudes with me.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it?
I had to head to the office and she had class so we closed the conversation promising that we would meet on Saturday evening at a pub. But, on Friday evening when I was done with work around 10 pm, I was feeling horny, so I called her to see if she would be willing to meet me that night. She made a few excuses but eventually decided to meet me and I went on to pick her up. We reached my place around midnight because we had to stop and get condoms from the store.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Since my other flatmate was not at home, once we had closed the door, I held her by her waist and started kissing her. I grabbed her huge ass over jeans and kneaded it softly. I took her top off and began unbuttoning her jeans in the living room. I saw her matching transparent lingerie and was happy that she dressed up for the occasion.
It was already midnight and I had not eaten dinner, so I grabbed some food and made her sit on my lap in her undies while I ate and caressed her curvaceous body with my left hand. She was already wet, as I could see the damp patch on her panties, and I caressed her pussy a bit more.
Once I was done with my food, I played with her boobs, sucked them and bit down on her hard brown nipples making her moan. We then went to bed, where I fingered her already wet pussy for close to 10 or more minutes to before she orgasmed. I was already hard by then and wanted to enter her. We started with missionary position then changed to doggie style which she responded well to. It was not more than 5 minutes before I had an orgasm and crashed to bed next to her. I was too tired to go for another round, so we slept. We woke up the next morning around 7, I was feeling horny again and started poking my tool in her ass. It wasn’t long until we were doing it doggie-style again. I came, but she didn’t. We cleaned ourselves up and had breakfast together. She left quickly for her 10 AM classes.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The sex was refreshing. The mutual respect still exists and we may hook up again if our schedule allows.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, attraction to partner(s), learning new things, experimenting, emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, to feel better about myself, to feel more desirable, to feel more confident, to cheer myself up
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’ but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend. We both share our hookup stories. He got jealous after he heard she shared her nudes with me in the first place.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Good sexual release. Her being bong(Bengali) just added to it.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I like experimenting and would love to experiment and learn what pleasures women the most.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? The liberal nature of the partner does help in breaking the ice and discussing sex freely. She was quite open and was all in for casual sex.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Being in my late twenties, it is difficult to abstain from sex and adhere to societal norms of waiting until marriage to have sex. It helps me to release stress and makes me feel better. Causal sex helps one learn and improves their skills in bed as well. Women in the society should be comfortable discussing sex and men should not look down on women who discuss sex.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A big thumbs up
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