What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? South Asian/Indian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? India/Hyderabad
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Manager in a tech firm
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Kinky, experimental and sexually curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Banging a Bong
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We matched on tinder at around 7 AM on one of the Friday mornings. Like any other Bengali girl, she flaunted great curves in the pics and her profile mentioned she was new to the city.
I was sporting a morning wood and wanted to get off. Blame the cloudy weather outside, she was horny and alone in her hostel room. We started flirting, which moved to a discussion on our favorite genre of porn and favorite positions. We ended up sharing insta ids, flirted a bit more, and she ended up sharing her nudes.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it?
I had to head to the office and she had some classes, we closed the conversation on the promise that we would meet on Saturday evening at a pub. But, on Friday evening when I was done from office around 10 pm, was feeling horny, so I rang her up if she would be willing to meet me the same night. She was making some reasons, but somehow got convinced and went on to pick her up. We reached at my place around midnight, stopping in between to collect condoms from the medical shop. So, yeah although both of us wanted it, I think I instigated it that night. And yeah, she was a bit on the heavier side than the pics showed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Since the other flatmate was not at home, once we closed the door behind, I held her by her waist and started kissing. Grabbed her huge ass over jeans while kissing, kneaded and patted them softly.I took her tops off and start unbuttoning her jeans and taking them off in the living room itself. Seeing her matching transparent lingerie, was happy that she dressed up for the occasion.
At the same time, it was already midnight and I had not had my dinner. Grabbed some food on my plate, made her sit on my lap in her undies, having food and caressing her curvaceous body with my left hand. She was already wet, as I could see the wet patch on her panties. I caressed her pussy over panties a bit more.
Once done with food, I played with her boobs, sucked them and bit her super hard brownish nipples making her moan. We then went to bed, where I fingered her already wet pussy for close to 10 or more minutes to before she orgasmed. I was already hard by then and wanted to enter her. And we started with missionary position; almost after 5 minutes we changed to doggie style and she was responding well to it. It was not more than 5 minutes before I had an orgasm and crashed onto the bed next to her. I was too tired by the end of the day to go for another round. So, we slept. We woke up the next morning around 7, I was feeling horny again and started poking my tool into her ass. It wasn’t long, we were doing doggie again. I came, but she didn’t. We cleaned ourselves up and had breakfast together. She had to rush for her 10 AM classes and she left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The sex was refreshing. The mutual respect still exists and we may hook up again if our schedule allows.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend. We both share our hookup stories. He got jealous after he heard she shared her nudes with me in the first place.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was plain old good sexual release. Her being bong(Bengali) just added to it.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not much.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I like experimenting and would love to experiment and learn what pleasures women the most.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Liberal nature of the partner does help in breaking the ice and discuss sex freely with the partner. She was quite open discussing stuff and was all in for casual sex.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Being in late twenties, it is difficult to abstain from sex, adhering to the societal norms that one should have sex post marriage only. It releases stress and makes me feel better. Helps one learn more about sex and improves one in bed as well. The women in the society being comfortable discussing sex and men not look down upon women who discuss sex.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A big thumbs up
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