by Corinne

Gender: Female
Age: 44
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Dallas
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Public Relations
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Bicurious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 14
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Banging My Boss

How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was someone I knew from work related meetings and PR stuff.  He worked for a competitor.  About six months ago my company “stole” him and he ended up being the new head of my department.  He is very attractive and I was surprised to find out he was about ten years older than I thought he was.  He was very easy to get along with and we had to work together several hours a day the first few months.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was not planned.  I’ve been married twenty years and he was also married.  He and I had talked about cheating before and how it didn’t pay….
I had a liquid lunch with some girlfriends at a new tavern I was considering using for meetings.  Drinks and appetizers were comped so we were all feeling good.  Boss texted me to see what I was up to, and asked me to join him and a few others at a sports bar.  I did and spotted everyone but him at the bar.  All of a sudden he was behind me and I said “I’ve already been drinking”…he laughed and said ” I see that” and hugged me. When that physical contact happened I became wet and knew immediately I was going to go for it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Eventually my other coworkers left.  I began leaning into him at the bar and pressing against him.  We ended up making out in my car like teenagers for half an hour.  The kissing alone was making me crazy.  We agreed to go back to the office a mile or so away.  Once there we were all over each other and I quickly hopped up onto his desk and got rid of my panties.  I gasped when he thrust inside me because he’s easily the largest guy I’ve ever been with.  At some point my bra ended up on the floor and he kept whispering to me how he knew all along my breasts were this amazing and my pussy so good and how he’d thought about fucking me since before we ever started working together.  I had my legs wrapped around him and my skirt pushed up to my waist.  I was surprised at the intensity of the sex and how wet and into it I was.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I came with him inside of me and that set him off and he came explosively.  We were both shaking.  It was amazing.  I don’t come ever without manual stimulation.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None.  He had no other partners but his wife for 8 years and I had only been with one other person one time aside from my husband in the last 20 years.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Mutual attraction, chemistry, alcohol.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had several glasses of wine prior to meeting up then a few drinks when I got there.  He had several beers as well.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day was awkward.  I assumed he was sorry and felt guilty and it wouldn’t happen again and I was disappointed.  He apologized to me and said he felt like he took advantage of me and he felt bad about his wife.  I told him I was sorry too but I really enjoyed it.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just my best friend.  She was shocked because she knew I’d never cheated but also wanted all the details.  She’s since met him and thinks he’s really hot.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes.  It’s turned into a full blown affair.  We were awkward for about two weeks then we had to drive out of town together.  We talked a lot of personal stuff on the way there.  On the way back we stopped for drinks and started talking about our night.  He told me I was an amazing kisser and we ended up back in his car for an hour.  The next week I made arrangements for a hotel and took him to lunch then the room, where we spent five hours together fucking over and over again.  Since then we’ve managed to spend the night together a few times, we’ve snuck away during the day several times and even had sex in his car and in my convertible in the middle of nowhere during the day.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I should but I don’t.  I’ve never felt so wanted and never had such great sex.  I am realistic about it being new and about screwing around with someone I work with…but for the moment I am loving it.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The sex and compatibility and ease of conversation that we have is the best.  The work/married aspect is the downside.  This whole experience has made me feel so much like a woman.  I’ve put aside my insecurities about my body and I’m reveling in the power of my sexuality.  It is amazing.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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