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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? San Francisco
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Technology
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Explorative
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30-35
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Banging my summer crush

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? S. was friends with mutual friends. Although I had seen her around every summer when I returned home, I had never had a proper conversation until one of those mutual friends introduced us during a party one winter while I was back home. She was dating a guy I knew back then and despite that I thought we hit it off quite well. We danced and flirted a bit that night but nothing came of it because I was leaving in a few days. I remember she looked quite sexy in a slinky white low cut top and skinny jeans that accentuated her very pert ass. I also remember being quite attracted to her can do attitude and even remarked how lucky the guy she was dating was!

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I didn’t see S. for another six months but when I was back home again for the summer I also bumped into her at another party. She had broken up with her boyfriend recently and I took this opportunity to make a move. We danced quite a bit and got drunk, but when I made a move later that night, she rebuffed me sweetly. We still exchanged phone numbers and chatted on WhatsApp over the next three weeks. I hadn’t had sex in a while and was hoping she was up for a rebound fuck — but it didn’t look like that way. We still flirted quite a bit and our conversations graduated to the phone and we went to a couple of parties together. However, even though she was always very cozy, she seemed reluctant to take the next step. The third time we went out to a party, I cornered her in a room and we made out quite a bit, but the moment, I made a move to remove her shirt, she pushed me away.

Just when I had almost given up on ever getting S. into bed, it happened. The fourth time we went out, S. had a few drinks and after a while, I could tell she was quite tipsy as she was continually grinding into me. At one point, I even grabbed her ass and squeezed and she just looked back and smiled. I used this opportunity to roam over her body and boy was she banging hot! I knew then I had to have her.

I was staying with my parents but I didn’t care. I would have her even if I had to sneak her in. I had waited so long and played it very slow and I meant to enjoy my spoils. I felt like a teenager driving her back to my place and then sneaking her into my bedroom. But once in there the magic happened.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I got S. naked and she was even hotter than I had pictured. Her boobs were much bigger than they looked and incredibly supple. I played with them and then sucked on them for a while as she sat and moaned in pleasure. But if her boobs were good, her ass was remarkable — big, tight and almost heart-shaped.

I was incredibly turned on by this time and S. pushed me from the bed onto my couch. She then proceeded to undo my belt and pull down my pants. I am quite (modestly speaking) big relative to South Asian guys and I registered the visible surprise on her face when she got my cock out. But like a true trooper she went to work on it with her luscious lips. She sucked the head expertly with a suction like technique I hadn’t experienced before, while twisting her hands around my shaft. I was seriously backed up by her teasing over the last few weeks and at this point all I wanted was to bury my cock down her throat. Her attitude was incredible and she took on the challenge of trying to deep throat my cock. Unfortunately, her gag reflex got in the way but she went deeper than anyone had ever managed. I pulled her up from her knees, pushed her on the couch and proceeded to face fuck her like a buckaroo as she fondled my balls. This pushed me over the edge and I was ready to cum in thirty seconds. I begged her to let me cum in her mouth but she was adamant about not liking the taste of cum. We compromised as I shot a monster load on her chest.

I hadn’t had an orgasm like that in ages but I wasn’t going to let a chance to fuck her pass. And neither was she, it seemed. My cock had barely stopped spurting when she went to work on it again, teasing it to its full size with her marvellously talented mouth. I slipped on a rubber and pushed her onto the bed and we went at it missionary style as I entered her velvety pussy, which was really wet. I fucked her with vigor — rough and dirty as she moaned her affirmation and her lips gripped my already sore member. After a while, I turned her around and fucked her doggy style, her head crashing into the pillows with ever thrust as the bed creaked its approval. Her juicy ass pushed back into my balls teasing me into the impossibility of a second orgasm in thirty minutes. But before I came, she did, her pussy spasming and her body shivering as she moaned her approval of my what my big cock was doing for her in very colorful language. This turned me on incredibly and I felt myself edging towards another orgasm. I came in another explosion my limp body crushing her taut one underneath as my cock pulsed a fucking mind-blowing orgasm. I had two of the most intense orgasms of my life in less than an hour and my mind was figuratively blown.

But S. had another proposition — get hard again and I could take her anal cherry. “I love your cock,” she said and I want it to be the first up my ass. We cleaned up, I rehydrated and S. went to work again with her mouth while on her knees in front of me. The dominating position turned me on and despite my incredibly sensitive cock at this point, she managed to get me hard again. Don’t ask me how I just remember fondly that she was incredible with her mouth and that my cock hadn’t felt like that ever. S. was patient, teasing and goading me on to an erection that I managed after about 15 minutes in her delicious mouth.

Unfortunately, it was only at this point that we realized we did not have lube and let me tell you that trying to penetrate a virgin asshole without lube is rarely a task for the uninitiated. We gamed on and I tried a number of positions but either it was too raw for her or too much friction for me. My cock was feeling the affects at this point but S. was still turned on, so we went another round in her pussy– this time with her bent over the couch as I penetrated her standing behind her. I wanted to go bareback but yet again she was adamant in saying no. S. came again, this time moaning so loud I had to ask her to stifle it. I fucked her onwards for another five minutes before I too warned her I would cum.

She proceeded to pull out my cock, unwrapped the condom and while I pleaded with her to take me in her mouth and let me finish there, she instead jacked me off to completion for my second load of the night (and third overall) on her perky tits.

We were both utterly spent by this time and I had to take a nap before I could stand up again!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I had to drop S. off before my parents woke up and we made out a bit more in the car. She is still the most incredible lay of my life and we fucked a few more times that summer — each a pretty spectacular memory. She even managed to deep throat me during one of those occasions but thats a story for another day. We live in different cities now, and even though we parted during that summer we fucked again a couple of years later when in the same city for a couple of days. She was casually dating a very good friend of mine during that time, but she told me that she missed my cock. I complied.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, Power / Dominance

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told a few friends who felt a little jealous that I had managed to ‘bag a hot chick’.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Her blowjobs. They are the best I have ever experienced. No one before or since has sucked my cock like she has. To the point that I have even tried to get my following partners to do some of the things she did that summer. Unfortunately, no one has managed to reprise anything close to that experience.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I couldn’t take her anal virginity.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Some of the best sex of my life

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think people should be way more open to casual sex. It expands your boundaries and lets you explore your sexuality without needing to let emotional baggage get in the way.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? two thumbs up.

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