What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Chicago
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? bartender
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 53
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Bar Hookup With A Couple

How long ago did this hookup happen? over the weekend

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I work as a bartender. This couple came into the bar Saturday night. They were probably in their late twenties, both very attractive, and in great shape. They said they had been to the bar before, although I did not recognize them. They were very friendly and both had a great sense of humor.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I noticed them flirting with a couple of different women during the night, not in a creepy or aggressive way, but I assumed they were trying to find a woman for a threesome. The first woman they flirted with left with friends. I’m not sure what happened with the second one, she left on her own. It was getting late by then and I could tell they were a little disappointed that neither of the women had worked out. I started to flirt with them a little, bending over in front of them so they could see some cleavage. Finally, towards the end of the night, I said that if they were interested, I wouldn’t mind going home with them. They eagerly said yes.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? They stuck around until we closed, and I walked with them back to their place a few blocks away. We got right to it once we were inside their apartment. They had me naked within minutes. We were in their living room. The woman knelt down and licked my pussy while I stood over her with one foot balanced on the arm of a loveseat. The man stood behind me squeezing my tits and kissing my neck. It felt amazing, but I told them I’d been on my feet all night and wanted to lie down, so they led me to their bedroom. I fell back on their bed, and he rubbed my feet while she got naked and joined me. She and I made out while she played with my tits and I played with hers. He kept rubbing my feet, which felt so good after the long night at work. He took off his shirt and then leaned down and began licking my pussy. All the while, she rubbed my tits and ran her fingers along my body. It felt so relaxing. They traded places. She started licking my pussy while he got naked and knelt next to me on the bed so I could suck his cock. He was quite well endowed and got hard in my mouth very quickly. She started fingering me while licking my clit and I came hard.

I was incredibly horny and asked if it was okay if he fucked me. They both said it was more than okay. She put a condom on him and guided his cock into my pussy. She got back up on the bed and straddled my face. I licked her wet pussy while he fucked me. He’d started at a somewhat slow pace but began to fuck me really hard. I started to moan loudly into her pussy and she was moaned really loudly too. We got into several different positions: him fucking me from behind while I ate her out, both she and I on all fours with him fucking me and fingering her, me riding his dick and making out with her. I kept telling her how good his dick felt and she mentioned how hot it was seeing his dick in my pussy. This was maybe a bit prosaic for dirty talk, but it turned me on in the moment. I came again as I was riding his cock while she rubbed my clit. After I came, I wanted to watch them fuck, so I hopped off his dick and played with myself while I watched them. When he was ready to cum, I leaned in to pull his dick out of her pussy and let him cum in my mouth. She and I kissed, and I ended up going down on her again to make her cum. After she came again, we lay there on the bed for a while, chatting about how good that had felt and how much fun it was.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? They offered to let me crash at their place after we had sex. I was tempted because I really liked them but thought that might be a bit much. Though I told them I would not be opposed to joining them again another time. They were a lot of fun, respectful, and really good at sex.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy/convenient

How intoxicated were you? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my sister (we often talk about sex), who had a threesome of her own on Saturday, so we thought it was funny that we’d both had one the same night.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? They were both focused on making me feel good, especially after I told them how sore my feet were from work. They gave me a foot rub, even during oral, as a result.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I really wanted him to fuck me raw. He had such a nice dick, very thick, and it would have been amazing to feel it bare, but I don’t do that for casual sex.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, but it was very fun.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is something I very much enjoy. It’s a big part of my life. I wish there were less of a stigma surrounding casual sex, especially for women.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I just learned about it and it seems great!

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