What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Chicago
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 23
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Bar night gone right!

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The woman I was with was 31 with an athletic body and red high heels and a short black dress. I met her for the first time at the bar wen I was having a drink with a friend that returned from over seas. I was attracted to her at the first glance.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup began when I ordered our second round of drinks from the bar and she was eye balling me instead of me eye balling her. I walked up to the bar right next to her. She tapped my shoulder and told me to rate her on a scale of 1-10. Me being the joker I am I said “Your an easy 8 but would be a 10 with my d**k in your mouth.” She just laughed and said “I could make that happen.”

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After I ordered our drinks she told the bartender to take them to the table for me because she needed someone to look at her car. She took me out to her vehicle and told me to get in the backseat, so I did. She got in the driver seat started the car and turned on the radio. She then got into the backseat with me and said “Well see if I can break the scale and be above a 10 sweetie.” I laughed and before I knew it she was blowing me. She gave me head for a good hour making me cum twice along the way, both times she swallowed. Once she stopped after the hour I laughed and said “Did the scale stop at 10 or 15 cause your about a 20 at this point.” We both laughed. She then asked if I wanted to hook up, it didn’t take me more than 1 second to say yes. She then got completely naked, except for the high heels, I asked her to keep them on. We had sex for another hour and a half. After we finally calmed ourselves down and stopped having sex she tells me “Don’t tell my husband, now go finish your drinks.” So I left, only to find out my buddy left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Once I walked away from her car and she drove away that was the end of this hook-up. It’s been two years and I still wish we would have exchanged information. I always hoped I would see her again but never did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? All of my friends, they seemed to think it was all a lie.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was such a great experience! Best sex and head I’ve had in my life!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Never seeing her again.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I agree with having casual sex 100% all thanks to this experience.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is a great way to have fun and have different experiences, however nobody should have casual sex throughout their life.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great idea, it helps people understand that it is okay to have casual sex! It doesn’t make you a whore, slut, or anything along those lines.

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