by Gemma

Gender: Female
Age: 43
Race/ethnicity: White mixed
Current location: UK
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Sex Worker
Relationship status: Fuck Buddies
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Heterosexual but fun
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Ah…
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Zero

Bar Pick Up

How long ago did this hookup happen? 23 years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had never seen him before that night. I was in a bar and he spoke to me upon two occasions that night and the second time I invited him back to a party. lol there was no party..

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? So back at my friends place she put the music on and the television. He tries to dance with me so I invite him to sit with me on the sofa and he gives me a kiss.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He rubbed my pussy a lot, felt my tits and we went to full sex, vaginal. I was going to offer to suck his cock but there was no need. I was naked on the sofa with my legs open watching his dick slide in and out and thought, oh well, this is cool.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did manage to orgasm numerous times. He wore me down and I felt comfortable with him.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I was taking the pill so we did it bareback.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I just felt like I wanted to do it with him.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We had both been drinking but were not drunk.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great afterwards and wanted to do it again but we both had other commitments.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I didn’t tell anyone except my best friend who was there anyway. Discretion being the better part of valour..

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual and a wanted experience for me. Him too lol

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No regrets.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about it was I just did it and enjoyed it. And I orgasm numerous times too.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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