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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 18
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Bareback Sex With An Escort

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had checked out Yasmine’s profile on an escort website for several months prior to meeting her. In her photos, Yasmine was very curvy in all of the right places, 5’7″ tall with long dark hair and dark eyes. She later told me she was of Turkish descent – a major turn-on for me.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After 9 months of no sex with my long-term partner, I decided to message Yasmine through the escort website and within 10 minutes she phoned me to arrange a booking in an hour’s time. I’ve been with escorts before during dips in my relationship and knew this was the safest option as there would be no emotional connection.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After some light kissing, Yasmine spread her legs and told me (almost demanded) that I go down on her. I’m not keen on oral sex but was so horny and intoxicated that I ate her out for 5 minutes. Things suddenly changed when Yasmine asked if I liked to “party”, of course, I said yes. A bottle of whiskey came out of her handbag and we took turns taking swigs. Next, she pulled out a makeshift bong and began smoking something (which I later learned was crack). She told me to try it because it makes you super horny and your orgasm is much stronger. After 5 minutes of smoking, Yasmine took my dick and slid it into her pussy without a condom. Completely out of it, I slid in and out of her pussy while she let out small groans. Yasmine then rolled over and demanded I fuck her doggy style as hard as I can. I fucked her the best I could until I had to stop for 10 minutes to get a breather. Yasmine said disappointingly that I still hadn’t cum in her and I felt pressured to do so. We got into the missionary position and I sucked her big, flabby breasts while we slow fucked. Eventually, I came inside her and it felt amazing – she’s the second woman I’ve cum in. We lay there cuddling, kissing and touching for another 10 minutes before we started smoking again. It wasn’t long before she was straddling me and began slowly riding while I rubbed her clit and sucked her nipples. I was struggling to cum at this point so Yasmine gave me a handjob until I was about to burst. She asked me to finish inside her (which I did), it felt amazing dumping my second load inside her.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next day I felt stupid for 2 reasons: firstly, for smoking crack (something I’ll never do again) and secondly, for having bareback sex with an escort. I could have caught anything, but thankfully I’ve been given a clean bill of health since then.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, Crack

How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Crack

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I regret smoking crack and I regret having unprotected sex with a prostitute.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Cumming inside someone other than my partner. Being made to feel wanted and having spontaneous sex with a dirty woman.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Being worried I’d caught an STD in the weeks after the hookup.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is fine as long as nobody gets hurt.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A great website to learn about the experiences of other like-minded people.

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