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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Nursing
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Bartender Hookups

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 Days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I only turned 21 a few months ago, and since then, I have gone to this bar quite frequently. He’s worked a few times that I’ve been there, and he always makes me custom drinks. In my opinion, he makes the best drinks. I didn’t notice that he always looked at me until a friend I always go with, told me how he obviously liked me because he always looked at me and tried to flirt. Ever since she said that I couldn’t stop obsessing over how cute he was and thinking about him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He ended up adding me on Snapchat, and he asked me to come over and have some fun following a night of heavy drinking.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I felt amazing, we had a lot of fun. Afterward, he kissed me on the forehead and we cuddled. In the morning, he didn’t want me to leave.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I became more attached than I would have liked to, and he started sending me confusing Snapchats, which I’d answer to, then never respond. The week following the first hookup, he invited me to hookup several other times but I couldn’t. That following weekend, we hooked up again, but this time wasn’t as natural.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends all said he’s hot but are worried that I will be led on

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How attractive he is

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I never thought that I’d ever catch the attention of someone that attractive, let alone have them beg me to come over to hookup not once, but several times.

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