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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States-Midwest
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? ISales
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Typical guy
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Approximately 50-60
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None-poster virgin-please be gentle
Basement Hookup at College Party – I Still Think About Her
How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 years ago more or less
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a reasonably hot girl named Robin, big boobs (which I love) and slightly above average body and face (decent but no show stopper). I was at a keg party at the local college my buddy attended. I had never met or even saw her until that night.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? A friend of mine pulls me aside and points to this chick across the room and he’s like, “Dude this girl is over there telling her friends how hot you are and she wants to fuck you.” He was a good friend and I thought he was maybe joking or whatever so I told him to bring her over and introduce her. Next thing I know my buddy introduces us and walks away. We were both a little drunk and not even saying much, when she asked if I felt like getting some fresh air. I said sure and we went outside, it was a chilly but not cold night and we were in this apartment complex with all college kids, she leads me down to the basement level where one of the apartments at the end of the hall was really just an empty storage area but it was unlocked. I remember her saying something like, “Don’t you wanna check it out?” So we go in and started making out, pulled her top off and her big D cup tits were firm and great (she was only 20 or so) and she had like yoga type pants on and no shoes I had her totally naked in seconds – she looked great naked, I might add.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She got naked for me first, was clearly proud of her body, she started blowing me but not too crazy – just a little foreplay. Anyhow, I tried lifting her up against the wall but was having trouble getting good leverage to fuck her, so I gave her the “turn around and bend over” nudge and she was all about it. I slipped my dick into her and started doing her from behind. I realized after a couple minutes that I was nowhere near cumming and had one of those porn star nights where I just crushed her for a long time, realized that the windows in the basement apartment were empty and we could both see people walking by like five feet away. I thought she would be embarrassed or at least want to move away from the window, but she actually seemed to enjoy the fact that we were halfway on display, anyone walking by could have looked down that window and seen us but she didn’t care. Anyhow, she was making a lot of noise and I finally pulled out and came all over her ass and lower back, which she loved but used my shirt to clean it up.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We got dressed (well she did, I just pulled my pants up) and went back upstairs to the party. She actually kind of ignored me after that, we just kind of hung out with the other kids at the party like it never happened. I felt great the next day, I knew I had fucked her good and hard. I had no expectations of anything, we did cross paths a handful of times over the next few years and were cordial, one time I saw her at a bar (by then we were both 21) and she told me that night was still the best fuck she ever had. I said great let’s go back to my place, but she was their with her boyfriend.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, it was easy/convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one really, a few people at the party knew but it didn’t seem like a big deal.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She was hot with big boobs, I kept it up for over an hour and she loved it.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It didn’t happen again.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? She ended up giving me blowjob in the bathroom of another house party a couple years later, said she had a boyfriend and wouldn’t fuck me again but said I was so hot she had to at least blow me. She was great at it and swallowed every drop I might add.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I was a real player when I was in my teens and twenties, and had the looks and bad boy attitude that easy girls go for. I am all for casual sex as long as both sides consent, I think it’s great.
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