What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA, Chicago
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Bathhouse Fuck Bench

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? There were several ranging in age from late 20’s to 60 years old or so.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was soooo horny. So, I left my hotel and went to a downtown bathhouse. I got a room, stripped, lubed up my ass and started stroking my cock with the door open and hitting poppers. After that I went to the slurp room and started sucking off mens cocks through glory holes while stroking myself. That REALLY got me worked up. So, I took a bunch of condoms and went to the fuck bench in the middle of the bathhouse.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I lay on the bench with my mouth and ass exposed for anyone who walked by. Some guys spanked my prone butt, while some stroked my cock. Some put their cock in my mouth and face fucked me. One old guy did that and then people started swarming around and fucking me. I let them know I loved it and then they started pounding me HARD. Getting it in both holes at one while 10 or more people watched and lined up put me in ecstasy. I felt so desired and attractive. I blew 4 or so guys while getting fucked by 6 different men. I can’t wait to do it again. The only thing that would have made it better was if there was a video crew there!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great and can’t wait to do it again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, Submission / Relinquishing power

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Poppers (Amyl Nitrate)

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Poppers (Amyl Nitrate)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave a clear ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. I wouldn’t tell anyone I fucking know about this.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The anonymous group orgy sex and the feeling that I was just a fuck toy for a bunch of horny men. Now I know how attractive women must feel.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not enough cum. Next time I want the guys to all cum on my face while I’m getting fucked by others.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I now think group sex is like having a drink. It feels great and everyone should do it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? We should all have more casual sex….especially in a group setting!

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it. The stories give me ideas about other things to try.

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