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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 67
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What country and/or city do you live in? Arizona USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Construction (retired)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Bathroom Blowjob

How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 years ago.

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a ranch woman, and a player. I knew her (and her reputation) from the cowtown bars where we were working. We’d hooked up once before for one intense, powerful, night of sex. She was short and a little heavy, but strong and very well toned. She had short, soft, black hair with coal black eyes and pale skin. She was quite stunning, in a big girl kind of way.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It happened with little planning. I arrived late to a party (worked past the rest of the crew) and things were jumping. I showered in the nicely finished basement bathroom, and was toweling off when she knocked. She instigated it. My wife was due later that evening.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? With the 1st knock on the door I said “Occupied”, but she asked thru the door if she could wash my back. I told her I was out of the shower and finishing up, when she opened the door and slipped inside.
I’d wrapped my towel around my waist with the knock, and as she shut the door she moved close against me and pulled the towel away. Well aware of her charms, I was getting hard even as she reached for my penis. She wore a bright red silk blouse and a short, fairly tight black skirt. While pressed tightly against me, stroking my cock, she licked my neck and bit my ear as she whispered that she had a surprise for me. I kissed her but she pulled away with a giggle, and dropped to a squatting position in front of me. Saying something silly like “Hi there” to Mr. Happy, she quickly took me deep into her mouth and sucked me. She was quite good at giving head, if anything too vigorous at times – she sucked so hard I worried about the ‘hickey’ effect. Her breasts were lovely, and she reminded me of just how nice they were when she partially opened her blouse and pulled them out. She gave me a stunning blow job, mostly hands free with her hands on my hips to steady herself. She squatted the entire time (I could see her chili-pepper panties) and within a minute or two I told her I was close. Urging me on, she sucked me hungrily as I came into her mouth. Swallowing my semen, she finished me off by licking my dick and balls clean, and kept sucking my half-hard penis until it was too much to take and I pulled away. She stood up and then we kissed, warm and deep. I could taste my cum on her breath – always a turn-on for me. I offered to go down on her; suggesting that she sit atop the sink and hike her skirt up but she laughed and said no. Maybe next time…She slipped out of the bath and went back to the party. I was a few minutes behind her, on shaky legs.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt slightly guilty, especially as my wife was there within an hour or two. But I felt pretty good by the next day…
Didn’t expect to see the other lady again, at least sexually. In fact I didn’t see her again for many years (15?) until we met at a funeral. She was with her new husband, a rancher, and they were very cordial. She was actually quite affectionate, and he was comfortable with it. Seemed pleased to have her and I don’t blame him.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel more desirable, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. Well, maybe the host sometime later.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The spontaneity, combined with her eagerness and exceptional sexual skills.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I couldn’t eat her out. She has the prettiest sex I’ve ever seen and orgasms quickly when eaten.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Still masturbate now & then thinking about it, and her.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Like it a lot! HIV has kind of cramped my style, and I’m more cautious these days.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Excellent. Although it’s frustrating that I can’t leave comments. I am NOT a fan of Facebook and have no account.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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