What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England, Midlands
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Warehouse worker
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 38
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 5
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was a 40 year old woman I worked with who I’ll call Li. She was married at tge time, not happily.
She has dyed blonde hair, is fairly tall and has a pretty face that’s normally always got a smile on. She’s has a very sunny demeanour and always seems happy apart from whenever she mentions her husband who she’d been with since she was 17 and was the father of her 2 teenage sons.
She looks after herself and could easily pass for a decade younger than her actual age. She has loveky legs, a round juicey arse and nice big tits that are still firm.
She’d started working with the small group I work with after she’d moved from nights and we’d instantly gotten along. We were always joking and flirting and we definitely had a bit if a mutual thing for each other.
She was unhappy in her marriage and has begun to really hate her husband who treated her like she was his maid and cook rather than his wife.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were on a works night out with a few others and she turned up in a little black dress with her incredible legs and tits on display. I was horny just looking at her and had to remind myself she was married.
She doesn’t go out much and when she does she tends to get a little wild, I didn’t know this at the time though and I was a bit shocked. She flirted with me all night and when she dragged me onto the dance floor at the crappy club we ended up in she held me tight and ground herself against me.
I could tell she wanted a piece of me and when we went to the corner of the room I found out which piece when she started stroking my crotch. My dick isn’t porn star big, but it’s a decent length and very thick, so when she felt it her eyes widened and she started dragging me into the women’s toilets. I was trying to persuade her to come to my place but she wanted some cock then and there. I wish I’d been more insistent, but as we were both fairly pissed at this point, I just gave up and let her take over.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We smashed open the door to the Ladies room and thankfully no one was in there. She dragged me onto a stall and I locked the door.
I roughly shoved her against the wall of the stall and pulled her tight black dress up to reveal a pair of little black knickers that I pulled down. I gave her firm arse a big also then started fingering her pussy. She was already soaking wet before I started and she was soon moaning.
I pulled my trousers down and rubber my cock against her wet pussy. She begged me to fuck her so I pushed it in.
She screamed when I entered her and didn’t stop moaning and screaming. I just banged away as hard and fast as I could which she seemed to love. At least one woman heard us going at it as I heard a voice shout out to “get in there love”. No idea if anyone else heard us but I assume so.
She came hard and fast and I wasn’t far behind. I pulled out and shot my load on her bum and down her leg. She was panting away and sat on the toilet to catch her breath. My cock was covered in her juices so I asked her if she wanted to clean it, I thought she’d tell me to fuck off but to my delight she gave me a wonderful blow job and I soon blew up again , this time in her mouth, she swallowed the load down and cleaned herself up.
We waited till we were certain no one else was in the room then swiftly exited. Not long after I sent home and put her in a taxi. In my drunken state I’d put her soaked through knickers in my pocket which I ended up keeping for a while as a memento.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Thankfully Li never found out that I took her underwear. We agreed not to mention our little mistake as she called it but 6 months later she divorced her husband finally.
I would have liked to try to have a proper go at being with her but she said I was too young for her, I was only 25 then and closer in age to her son’s than her.
We did end up having another hook up not long after she split with her husband. This one was longer and definitely more satisfying than shagging her in a bathroom stall whilst god knows how many others listened on.
She’s since re married to another guy we work with. He’s s good man and shes certainly happier with him than the last idiot. We still work together and are good friends. Having sex didn’t really change anything between us. We’re still flirty with each other and still joke around. She still gets pissed up at every night out and at some point she will always try to have s feel of my dick.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve never told anyone about it but several people know about it. The randoms who came in and out of the bathroom on the night certainly knew. A couple of our work mates saw us going in and out as well so they out 2 and 2 together. They were friends though si thankfully didn’t spread it around work.
Not long after she’d divorced her husband he messaged me saying he knew I had fucked his wife and would kick my arse if he saw me in town. He’s a little shit though so I just laughed it off. I asked Li if she’s told him and she admitted she had.
Apparently after she’d told him to get out if the house he revealed that he’d been fucking some woman on the side for a while so Li told him about us and that she’d gotten more pleasure from a few minutes in a bathroom with me than in over 20 years of fucking him. She also told him how much bigger I was than him so he definitely reacted badly to it. Thankfully I’ve never seen him around.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The moment I slipped my finger into her and discovered she was already dripping wet and wanted me desperately.
Also fucking in any public place carries that extra thrill of if you’ll be caught out.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The aftermath of feeling a bit guilty for fucking a married woman.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? N/A
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good idea and interesting.
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