by Willis

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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? China
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Financial Consultant
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

BBJE – Best Blow Job Ever

How long ago did this hookup happen? almost 1 year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met J through a friend S a couple of years ago, after a short while I started to hang out with J and her group of friends (mixture of guys and girls). I never found J attractive until one day S told me he had almost hooked up with J and he found her extremely attractive. S was in a committed relationship at the time and he explicitly said he wanted nothing more than sex, he even suggested I should have a go at hooking up with J. That’s the time I began to realise J was indeed sexually attractive – kinda pretty face, small tits but slim, well proportioned body. I thought about it but never put into action.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We all drifted away after moving out of the apartment building. I knew J moved into an apartment nearby and was living alone, but never thought of getting in touch with her. Until about two years later, I bumped into her and started talking again and exchanged our phone number. I found out she was in a long-distance relationship and still living in the same apartment. I could also sense that she was lonely and bored. A few days later I asked her to hang out and catch up on the old times, she said yes. We had dinner, watched a movie and walked along the beach. We had a good time and promised to hang out again. We both sensed there was some chemistry but given the obvious (J was in a committed relationship), I wouldn’t want to make a move there and then.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Second time we hang out we ended up back at her apartment, it’s pretty late (about 11pm) we were listening to music and chatting. I was kinda surprised that J didn’t ask me to leave because I know she sleeps early. As we were chatting away, a song came up that we both liked and started singing along together. I felt it’s a right time to make a move if I was ever to make a move, so I snapped off the light and started trying to kiss her. J was a little surprised by it – the sudden darkness and my kiss, although she held back a little but soon she started kissing me back and we were all over each other.

As we kissed I began to feel her tits and thighs, also tried to undress her at the same time. She pushed my hand away when it was close to her pussy, took me a few attempts eventually I got to feel her pussy and as expected it’s wet. I also tried to eat her out but she didn’t allow me to remove her panties, so I only got to sniff her pussy with her panties on. I also kissed her neck and ears in order to arouse her to a point that she would give in. After some time she told me that she couldn’t have sex with me because she wouldn’t forgive herself for cheating on her boyfriend, then she offered to suck me off and said she was very good at it from all the practice before she had lost her virginity. Of course I accepted her offer.

Oh man, she wasn’t bragging. Her mouse was like a Dyson, and her tongue twisted like a snake, in no time I was in full mode of being sucked off. She sucked, licked and stroked at same time. While I tried to hold on as long as I could but after a short while I was unable to, so I told her that I was about to come, just as I spoke I blew a full load all over her face and mouth. She jokingly complained but I knew she didn’t mind.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I stayed at her place that night. We chatted about things, she spoke about her relationship with her bf. I knew she was in love with him but I had no feelings or intention to start a relationship with her.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Boredom, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I was given the best blow job so far.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didnt get to fuck her or eat her out.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is a lubricant of our society, people should be more open about it. There shouldn’t be any double standards between men and women.

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