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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Spain
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Unemployed
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Kinky
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Not counting
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

BDSM Sex In A 4 Star Hotel

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Me and this guy matched on tinder and he soon asked me about my kinks. We chatted about what we like and dislike on WhatsApp and he seemed pretty nice and into the same stuff as me.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We talked about getting a hotel room for a night as both of us have busy homes, mine with family and his with room mates. I had plans with a friend that night and she canceled. Then he said he had a bad day and we started planning a crazy sex night. I was a bit scared as I hadn’t met him in person before and it can be quite dangerous. But I went for it. We met in a bar and I drank vodka and lime and smoked a cigarette. He looked nice in person. He was tanned, muscular and green-eyed. There was something exotic about him. We made our way to the hotel and we arrived at a 4-star hotel. We had a casual conversation and very little physical contact up to that point.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we entered the room he whispered “now you’re mine, you know that, right?”, Which instantly made me feel a tingling sensation down there. He gave me a look from head to toe and smiled licking his lips: “you’re even better in real life than in your pictures”. I should say I’m a slim girl with a tiny waist, big double D boobs and wide hips. I have a nice smile and big hazel brown eyes.
He told me to get undressed and I obeyed. He put his hands on my shoulders and pushed them downwards, forcing me to get down on my knees. He then told me to undo his trousers. I did and I was surprised to see a huge, thick dick. I slowly started licking it and sucking it. Apparently I wasn’t going fast enough as he grabbed my head and started face fucking me until I was out of breath. I loved every second of it. Then he started slapping my face and calling me a slut for enjoying it so much. He could clearly tell I was so wet. He then told me to lie in be and proceeded to finger me. He had huge hands and the thrust of his fingers felt so good I soon asked if I could come. He allowed me and didn’t stop fingering me even after I had already come. Then he started spanking my butt cheeks, I was loving it, but all of a sudden he slapped my pussy and it hurt a lot. I was surprised and gave him a look. He said, “you can’t take it?”. I do love a challenge so I said “of course I can”. He continued to slap my pussy until it was sore. He made me get to the edge of the bed and I had his dick in my mouth again. After some more facefucking, he said “alright do you want it inside you?” And I said “I thought you’d never ask”. He then grabbed my body and made me sit on it. I rode him to the best of my ability but I suppose it wasn’t good enough for him. He soon grabbed my hips and started thrusting it deep deep inside me, very roughly. It was so good. Then he told me to get in all fours and fucked me doggy style for a while, switching between pulling my hair, and putting fingers down my throat. I came so fast after that. We rested for a little while and talked about things. I assumed it was over so I told him I was going to the bathroom. He looked at me in the eye and said “where do you think you’re going? I’m not done with you yet”. We continued having sex in multiple positions and I came like three more times. He was very good with his fingers too. In the end, he made me suck his dick again and it got quite sloppy, which I love. His dick was covered in my saliva and I started jacking him off, first gently and then very hard. He came like a fucking fountain. He slapped my ass a few times and said “now you may go to the toilet”.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We fell asleep and then had some morning sex again. We left the room and he paid for it. We said goodbye and until next time.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Power / Dominance, Submission / Relinquishing power, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my ex, who told me to post it on here. I also told my friend, who was happy for me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The dominance he had over me all the time.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It was a bit risky for me to go to a hotel with someone I don’t know.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me be a bit more daring. And I realized that I am really into BDSM.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex shouldn’t be shamed. It should be accepted as a normal part of our behavior as single people.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s amazing.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!