What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 40
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Recently
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My husband told me during sex that he would like to watch me with another man. At first, it was just fun talking about and it added some spice to our bedroom. Slowly the fantasy became more elaborate and soon it seemed like it wasn’t a fantasy at all, but something he really wanted to try.
I was reluctant, but we finally decided to place an ad in an adult dating site. We chatted with a few men and even set up a Kik account to chat further. To be honest, just searching for men was a big turn on for my husband and I really started to warm up to the idea of chatting with these guys.
At first, it was more of a game but my husband kept pushing it. Finally, he convinced me to meet someone for a drink one night when our kids were at summer camp.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met Jim (not his real name) one night at a hotel bar in a neighboring town. We had been chatting with him for a few months and I found him attractive and funny. We showed up at the bar and I was blown away by how good looking he was in person. He was very fit, tall. My husband even noticed how intrigued I was.
We were only going to meet for a drink, but my husband and Jim kept ordering me drinks and it wasn’t long before I was tipsy. My husband suggested we get a room and just have some innocent fun, maybe a little make-out session while he watched. If I hadn’t had so much to drink, I probably would have chickened out, but 20 minutes later I found myself making out in a hotel room with a man I just met as my husband watched and soon afterward, I was sucking on his cock.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Clothes started to come off and soon I found myself naked and moaning in bed with a stranger going down on me while my husband was also naked and stocking himself.
Jim asked my husband if he could fuck me. My husband said yes and Jim moved up and slid his cock into my wet pussy. I was so turned on by this time that I came almost immediately. He fucked me for about 20 minutes before he pulled out and came on my stomach.
My new friend left shortly thereafter and my husband and I fucked the rest of the evening
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The encounter with Jim supercharged our sex life. My husband and I fucked my every night for two straight weeks. Each night he told me how sexy I looked while I was being taken by another man. After a few weeks, we set up another meeting with Jim and it was even better the second time around. We fucked in numerous position and I even sucked my husbands cock and Jim fucked me from behind and then switched. I was much more comfortable now then I was the first time and the night lasted for hours.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Jim was so much hotter than I would have expected. He was taller and better looking than my husband. He was hung and he felt great inside me. He made me cum so easily. I didn’t tell my husband but he was an incredible fuck, I mean really incredible.
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Jim contacted me through Kik after our second meeting and told me how much he enjoyed meeting us. He confessed that the sex was much better than he had imagined that it would be. I confessed the same thing and told him that he was some much better in bed than my husband. We continued to flirt back and forth on Kik for the rest of the afternoon and I told him that I was getting really wet. He said he was equally turned on.
He then suggested that he would be open to seeing me without my husband’s knowledge. A month ago, I would have been appalled at the offer, but all I could think of was how good his dick felt inside and what would it be like if my husband wasn’t watching.
The next day, I left work early pretending to be sick and I met Jim at a hotel. Without my husband watching, the sex went to another level. I came so much that the sheets on the bed were absolutely soaked. I never felt so dirty in my entire life and I absolutely loved it. I’ve met Jim now three times with my husband knowing about and don’t plan to stop.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I would have never thought casual sex was a good thing if my husband had suggested it. Be careful what you wish for.
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