Gender: Female

Age: 45
Race/ethnicity: Native American/Hispanic
Location: Long Beach
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Legal Secretary
Religious affiliation: None
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
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Beach Blow Out

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup? FWBs

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a young 30-something with light brown hair and medium brown eyes. Slender build but muscular and very tall. He worked for a sail shop in the marina and I worked at a club on the beach so one day as he was delivering a job we smiled at each other and he just walked over and chatted me up. No small talk. He was very mild mannered and kind. Sexy as hell oh my I was in trouble.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After a few weeks he just tugged on my hair a bit as I was facing him and planted a very soft but firm kiss on me as he pinned me against a nearby wall. I had just clocked out and was headed home. He had no plans. We made out for a good 20-30 minutes.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Things were getting heated and he asked me if I wanted to take it to the beach so I grabbed an unclaimed blanket from the lost and found bin at the club and we held hands as we walked to the sand. We kissed briefly standing up before he turned me around and pulled my blouse off over my head. His hands quickly moved to my breasts as he pressed his body against my back. He had been rock hard for a while. He was a good, slow lover. He pulled off my panties from under my long skirt and shoved me down into the blanket where he went down on me very leisurely. Drove me insane and yeah I came quickly. Naturally I reciprocated and was totally shocked at how extremely well-endowed he was. I was scared actually. He was so incredible, honest, and sweet that he was worried I’d be afraid he would hurt me. Sucking on an erection that huge is not easy but it’s incredibly hot. He stopped me before he could cum because he kept whispering in my ear that he wanted to fuck me. We spooned on the blanket with one of his hands rubbing my clit as he slowly fucked me. The sound of the waves crashing, the smell of the ocean and the stars oh my god. Longest lasting orgasm I’ve ever had in my life to this day. He asked if I was on the pill and when I said no he pulled out quickly so I turned around just as he exploded on my breasts.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We had discussed prior partners and sexual attitudes in general and birth control in passing the few weeks leading up to this so he knew I used the rhythm method primarily and obviously he used the withdrawal method. Irresponsible yes but we were comfortable with each other.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Really? We were just two very sensual beings who felt instantly drawn to each other and when he pounced I was literally powerless to resist. I wanted him the first time he smiled at me. I hadn’t been with a man in over a year and he was just fresh out of a bad relationship so he wasn’t looking for anything serious.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked more about how his huge cock freaked out the young girls he dated. When he finally asked me how old I was and I said 40 he looked seriously shocked and told me he thought I was an “older woman” in her late 20s. I asked him how old he was and when he said 20 I almost threw up. He was really hurt by my reaction because we shared that age didn’t matter to us. This was before- when I thought he was way older than he looked.  We got over it and continued to date/fuck for nearly 2 years after that. He moved to Costa Rica.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few friends. They wanted me to take a picture of his cock but I said no. It was mine! They were shocked about his age because they also thought he was older than he looked.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Definitely.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No regrets. We still Skype and write regularly even though he’s engaged and I’m in an amazing relationship. We’re both very happy now and grateful to have known each other. It’s rare but it happens.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? BEST:  I learned to expect a man to please me before he gets off. My beach baby spoiled me but in a healthy way. WORST:  Age difference.

Yes, this hookup completely changed my attitudes about casual sex and left me with a very sex-positive vibe about my body and men in general. I no longer feel like a nymphomaniac for wanting to fuck my boyfriend senseless or for feeling attracted to an attorney in a suit.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? It took quite a bit of maneuvering but the size of his cock was more a hindrance than anything. It was his technique that sent me over the edge. Long make out session prior to touching more naked skin. More foreplay that kept my juices flowing and senses heightened just made everything more intense.

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