by Wad

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? NJ, USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Chef
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Hetero cis
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? One

Beautiful brunette

How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was beautiful, wavy brown hair, slim, medium sized, perfectly shaped, perky breasts, shaved pubic hair. She was the coworker of a friend of mine. I met her very briefly once before. We had barely spoken then.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were drinking at my friend’s apartment, he went to bed, we stayed in the living room and started fooling around. She instigated it. I think she just kissed me, and I dared her to show me her tits. She did so, and invited me to touch them. They were phenomenal, and the fact that I had a very serious girlfriend made it more elicit and enjoyable.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I told her I love to give head, so she pulled her pants and panties down. I ate her out for a while, then she pulled me up and pulled off my pants. She grabbed my cock and put it inside of her. We fucked a little, but her pussy was so tight that I couldn’t hold out for long. After only a couple of minutes, I came inside of her. I immediately felt guilty and said “I shouldn’t have done this”. She was a bit annoyed by that, but I just left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After that, we hung out again, and she was very affectionate and sat on my lap, put my arms around herself, and clearly wanted some sort of relationship. One night, we got some cocaine, and we both did some, but I left when the coke ran out, because I had done it many times before and I knew that I had to get to sleep before I came down. She had never done coke before, and she was upset that I left. We never saw each other again. My friend scared the shit out of me by saying that she was pregnant, but she wasn’t.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend. He told me she was pregnant. It wasn’t true.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She was really hot, her tits were amazing, and her pussy was fantastic. Cumming inside of her was pretty great too.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I was too drunk and it was too short

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I don’t think it’s a big issue. It should be treated as such.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting

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