by Helena

Gender: Female
Age: 32
Current location: Greece
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual 

Beautiful Sunset

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? D and I have known each other since high school but never really talked. D was quite the popular person and I was under the impression there was something vicious about him. Two years ago I was working at some cafe in Athens when I noticed he was there. I buried myself in my work and avoided eye contact. Figured I had very little to say and I don’t like small talk. Naturally, D came by my table. Made himself comfortable and started a conversation. This turned out to be a great conversation. Turns out we shared similar interests and values. I could not shake my prejudice of him that easily though. I don’t remember how it happened but we started meeting each other every now and again. We have become friends. He’s very intelligent and fun to be around. He’s very fond of drinking too (maybe a tad too much, but who am I to judge? The reality in Greece makes you need a drink every so often). I always thought D was quite attractive. I liked the way he dressed and moved his body. Very charming. I really love the way his soft hair falls over his neck and the silver chain on his skin.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It started with a sudden kiss at sunset.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out for a little while. He’s an amazing kisser. I thought it would be just that. Then he suddenly says he’d like to go down on me. It turned me on so much. I offered to go to my apartment on the condition of no penetration (don’t enjoy those usually). He agreed. We got to my place, he sat at my kitchen table, I offered him a drink of water. He never got to finish it. I dragged him to my bedroom, undressed him, he undressed me. He put his chain on my night stand. He was funny and charming and made me feel incredible being naked around him. We kissed and caressed each other. He bit me a little in the exact right combination of softness and aggressiveness. We made out a little more and then he asked me in the sweetest way possible which I liked more, that someone goes down on me or to be given a hand job. I was so turned on by him that at that point I thought collecting stamps with him could be a very arousing activity so I smiled and said I have no preference. He did both. It was amazing, I came within a few moments. We hugged and kissed until I regained my strength. We talked and the conversation was open and interesting which is a turn on in itself (for me). I then wished to reciprocate and asked him to show me what he likes. He did but he said he had already orgasmed that day so it might be difficult. I gave it a try, he seemed to enjoy it but did not orgasm. I don’t have much experience in this department so perhaps my oral/manual skills still need to be worked on… We talked some more and made out some more. He then fingered me and went down on me. It felt so good. Adding my own hand to the mix, I came for the second time. What an amazing guy!

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did twice, he did not 🙁

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Nothing. Just oral sex but without any barriers.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Horniness and attraction

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Not on my part. He probably had something to drink before we met.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I made us both something to eat as he made my bed (because he’s perfect). We hugged and kissed and he went home. I went to sleep happy.
I felt and feel very lucky.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friend. She was a bit envious.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Hell no, not in a million years!!

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The way he phrased his question. That was so sexy and perfect.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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