What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 51
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Michigan
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Program Management
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Mostly straight
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Short, motorcycle riding dude with a big cock. I felt just horny to suck someone off before meeting him. This encounter was the first time we met.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met at his house about 30 minutes after he responded to an ad I put on CL. He was naked when he answered the door.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He guided me over to a couch in his living room and sat down. He was already pretty hard when I dropped to my knees and starting lick from the shaft down to his balls, then moving up to circle my tongue around the tip before putting my mouth over his cock and taking it in my mouth. As I began deep throating and fucking his cock with my mouth he spread his legs farther apart and “requested” that I lick his ass. I moved down and started to circle my tongue around his asshole, licking it, teasing it like a clit. He was getting really into this and put his legs over my head and pulled me with his feet to lick him more aggressively. I started to tongue his sweet hole, tongue fucking him. I was also stroking him at the same time. After eating his ass for awhile he asked me to stick a finger inside. This was my first time fingering a guys ass. When I stuck my finger inside I started to fuck him nicely with it while I moved back up to put my mouth on his cock again. I began to intensely suck this guy and I was fingering his very self lubricated ass. The dude was totally into it, moaning, grinding into my finger at the same time pumping this big hard cock down my throat. He asked me if I wanted to fuck him, but I was so into sucking I just kept right on going. He told me he was about to cum, which made go up and down faster on his cock and move my finger faster in and out of his ass. He grabbed my head as he began to shoot his cum in my mouth. My finger was still inside his ass when he came and I could feel the pulsating cum from inside it his ass. It was fucking hot!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt then and feel now it was the hottest experience I ever had with a guy. Never been so much in the moment as that one time.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Exchanged recent STI test results
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Submission / Relinquishing power, Boredom
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? First time talking about it right now
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I found out fingering a guy can be more intense than a woman.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I should’ve fucked him lol
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I learned anal play can be super hot.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Just be open. In the words of David Bowie, just love all the beautiful people in life.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It is an outlet for me. My therapy.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it. Been following the good Dr. on Twitter for awhile.
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