What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Camp Counselor
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 22
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Behind the Scenes of a Summer Camp Part 2
How long ago did this hookup happen? One day ago.
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a 5’8 man, a very muscular build. He had dark Italian skin. I only knew him as a co-worker prior to the hookup. I thought he had an amazing personality and was wildly funny, but I never seriously considered him as a lover.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup began at a cabin at the top of a mountain. My employer threw a staff party for the summer camp staff, which consisted of a lot of 20-something year old kids. I was the youngest by far at the party. I was tipsy and very high, dancing my ass off all night. at 4am everyone started heading off to their tents. I decided to sleep in the living room where 5 other people were sleeping. My coworker chose to sleep on the couch adjacent to mine. I told him that I was too energized by the nicotine in the blunt and that I couldn’t fall asleep. At that point, most everyone in the room was asleep already. He was very sweet, he made me tea and said he’d talk to me until I fell asleep. He asked me basic questions about my life and seemed was very attentive despite how late it was. Eventually, I started to close my eyes, but it struck me that it would be nice to feel his body next to mine while I slept. So I asked him if I could share a bed with him that night. He excitedly said yes and helped me get in next to him.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Lying next to him, I could feel his hard cock against my ass. I was only wearing a sports bra and very loose pajama shorts. I remember he had his hands on my bare torso. He began kissing me, except I can’t remember where. The hyperventilating, alcohol, and weed had my mind a little fuzzy. I remember internally debating if I wanted to have sex with him or just cuddle. This debate kept on in my head the entire time. I think we made out for a while until he started rubbing me through my shorts. I must have moaned loudly because he gently hushed me, I had forgotten there were a lot of people in the room. The next thing I recall is him on his knees next to the bed, his hands on either side of my ass, holding my pussy up to his face. As he was going down on me, I remember seeing another male coworker walk into the room. I don’t remember if he said anything but he definitely saw me, which turned me on because I love being seen in compromising situations. After this, I went down on him for a minute, but I was too high to concentrate. I asked him if he had a condom, and he said yes. Then a moment later he decided that he wanted the first time we have sex to be really good and sober. I totally agreed with him and went back to sleeping on my couch. He was extremely attentive the entire time and conscientious of consent.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning he was extremely sweet, but not obviously affectionate. We exchanged numbers and agreed to hang out when we’re sober. I hoped that I could have sex with him multiple times before I left the state. Now I feel the same way.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I spoke to my friend and coworker, she really likes his personality and was glad I ended up with him that night.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He made me feel very safe in a time where I felt very uneasy.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I was too high to be any good at going down on him.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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