What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? North Carolina
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Best Business Trip Ever
How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner, let’s call her Ginger for the sake of this story, is an Asian-American of Southeast Asian descent. She was 5’3 and about 100 lbs with a very cute ass. She was 23 at the time and had just started working at my company in rural NC. She immediately caught my eye the first time I saw her when she was an intern in the HR department. When she moved into my department, I was responsible for training her and we were sent on a one week trip to another office. We had developed a mutual flirtation at work and I felt like there was some chemistry even though we were both in relationships with other people at the time.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When we arrived at our office in the Northeast, we went through a day of training then left a little early so I could give her a tour of the area where I used to live. We went to a beautiful spot by the ocean then went out to eat. During the dinner, she noticed that I was rubbing my next frequently. My neck had been bothering me since I was in a car accident a few months prior to our trip. I suggested that we take a walk on the beach, hoping I could seduce her, or maybe flirt a little. During our walk, nothing notable happened. On the drive back to the hotel, she suggested that maybe she could help my neck feel better by massaging it. As soon as we got back to the hotel, I went over to her room. She began rubbing my neck and I leaned back into her. I could feel the attraction, but for some reason, nothing beyond the massage happened that night. The next day, she stopped by my room to chat. She laid down on my bed and I laid down next to her. I am generally pretty shy so it took a lot of courage for me to do what I did next. I leaned over and kissed her and she kissed back passionately. We kissed some more and eventually decided it was time to go out to dinner. We went out for sushi and it was obvious that both of us wanted to get back to the hotel as quickly as possible.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we got back to the hotel, we immediately went to her room and started making out. We laid down on the bed and she reached into my pants and began to play with my cock. She started to give me one of the best blowjobs I have ever had, complete with eye contact. She seemed to have a way of knowing when I was right on the edge and just keeping me there. I reached into her pants and started to play with her pussy. To my surprise, it was already very wet. Her pussy wasn’t shaved at all but was naturally hairless around her lips. I slid her up to sit on my face and was delighted by the taste as she rubbed her pussy on my lips and tongue. Finally, I slid her back down towards my cock. She was totally soaked at this point and I slid in easily with her on top. Since we weren’t using a condom and she wasn’t on birth control, she told me not to cum inside her. I took a moment to appreciate what was happening as I enjoyed my very first Asian pussy, watching her slide up and down on my cock. I eventually flipped her over and started to do her missionary, then finished up with her in the doggy position. Her ass looked so good as I pounded her pussy. After a few minutes, I couldn’t take it anymore and pulled out, covering her ass and back with my cum. This was the start of what would be one of the best weeks of my life with the best sexual partner I ever had.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We cuddled and proceeded to fuck several more times that evening. Throughout the course of the week, I think I had more sex than I have ever had in that time period. We ended up having a casual relationship that lasted 3-4 years even as we were in relationships with other people. Our sexual chemistry was undeniable. Every time we got together, it seemed like her pussy was soaking wet and my cock was hard within minutes.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told several of my friends who knew of my attraction to Ginger. They were all happy to hear that I had managed to live out one of my fantasies
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Ginger was the best sexual partner I ever had. She seemed to know exactly what I liked and how to please me.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I wasn’t ever able to cum inside her since she never used birth control during the time we were hooking up.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? This hookup increased my attraction to Asian women in general, although none have been as good as Ginger.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is the single greatest pleasure in my life. I wish people were more open about their desires.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it!
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