What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Portland, OR
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Bookkeeper
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 31
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Many
Best Buy Hookup
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last Weekend
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Dena is in her early twenties with blue hair and multiple piercings on her ears and her nose. She was fit with a large chest. I had just met her that day having purchased a laptop from her. I thought she was cute but a little younger for me but not really my type anymore but she reminded me of a girl I had dated in college for a while.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Due to a surgery my girlfriend is sexually unavailable for two months. Realizing I have needs she removed the exclusive part of our relationship. I hadn’t really taken much advantage in the first five weeks or so but I did spend one night with an ex-girlfriend and hooked up with the daughter of a client.
I had gone to Best Buy the day after Christmas to purchase a new laptop for work. It was busy and crowded and I tried to get several employee’s attention and Dena finally waited on me after a while. Looking back their were signs, she had brushed up against me while talking and smiled a bit. After I checked out and looked at the receipt and Dena had written her phone number on there and said to call her.
I did and she agreed to meet for drinks after she got off work. She showed up with a few buttons unbuttoned down her blouse and we ordered drinks. She said I had been the only person that was nice to her all day. We ended up flirting a bit and then agreeing to go back to my place since I lived alone.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We ended up making out as we made the way to my bedroom. I undressed Dena and learned she had a great body and some other things pierced. I sucked on her nipples before mounting and penetrating her in missionary. We kept kissing throughout and both got really sweaty We both started moaning and both had orgasms.
We laid there for a while and didn’t really talk much. After a bit she moved over and began to lick my cock. She used her tongue to tickle my shaft and deep throated a bit and it took me a while to cum. Since she had done so for me I went down on Dena. I don’t care to give oral but she enjoyed it and had another orgasm rather quickly.
We fell asleep after. Sometime in the morning early I woke up and Dena had mounted me and bounced up and down. I put my hands on her and she rode me until we both had orgasms a third time.
In the morning I made her breakfast and we talked. Dena told me she was just out of a several year relationship and she had also never had the guy care if she enjoyed herself or not. She also said she doesn’t normally suck cock on the first date. I ended up driving her back to her car and we kissed goodbye.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We texted back and forth a bit and I felt good the next day. I think Dena was looking for a more than one time thing but my girlfriend should be back available sexually in the next week or to. I kind of wonder if this was a mistake and if Dena could have been relationship material under different circumstances.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Haven’t told anyone.
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat
Why do you regret this hookup? Because I am not sure it was the best idea and maybe I could have had a relationship with her
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex was pretty good and unexpected
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I would say it’s my regrets
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Hasn’t really changed how I feel about casual sex or sexuality. Only thing I would add is that I misjudged Dena as not being my type and I quite enjoyed her.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex has been a big part of my life but as I have gotten older I have found I prefer sex in the context of a relationship.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Haven’t posted on here in a while and this site has changed a bit.
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