What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 73
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Santa Barbara, CA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Manager
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 75+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Best ever double BBJ
How long ago did this hookup happen? 9
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One night stand with two
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Walking out of a nightclub in Guangzhou, China, Seeing 2 young girls hanging out. Casually asking if they want a drink or something. One looked about 20 years old, the other a little older. Both very nice looking and dressed very casual. One answered in very broken english, “no drink but a place to stay for the night”. They looked ok and not under age. So I offered my hotel room and hoping for an easy lay.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? They agreed and we went to my hotel. At the hotel suite I offered them the shower with me included. One eagerly soaped me down in the shower, the other did not want to go into the shower (later I saw she had a very injured leg she did not want to show). There was no planning. One thing led to another and we ended up in bed, me naked, The older girl fully dressed, the other girl wrapped in a towel.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I wanted to fuck but they seemed hesitant. Communication was difficult. After some playful “mis” communication it became clear they didn’t want to fuck because they are virgins but a blow job was fine. This was fine with me. They both started and it was immediately obvious that the older girl was experienced the younger not so much. (I should mention here, I like blow jobs but only once did I come with just a bj).
The older one took over alone the younger one watched. The girl knew what she was doing, it was a thrill a minute and amazingly i came, full shot in her mouth. She smiled and swallowed. This was an absolute first, coming this quickly with just a bj never happened before, she truly was an artist. We had a smoke, played around and soon I had another erection. Now the older girl was pushing the younger to do the blow job. While she was at it, the older girl was watching her close up and giving her instructions, in Chinese, I didn’t understand nothing. It took a bit longer and most amazing I came again with just a bbj. After this second round we fell asleep, The next morning I ordered us a big room service breakfast, they ate and left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? During the following year I was several times in Guangzhou, I went to the same nightclub and looked for the girls. I never saw them again
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To Chinese friends, to find the girls again.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I had many times multiple orgasms but never 2 bbj’s in a row with only bj’s.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I couldn’t reconnect to get a repeat.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, before this I always said no one can get me of on a bj alone, I was taught better.
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Take whenever you can get it.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? There are no sluts, there are just people with different sexual desires.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good idea.
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