What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 17
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? US
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Will kiss and grab a chick, will marry a man.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 10-29-16
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s about 5’7, short brown hair. He has light facial hair and his ears are pierced. Wide but not fat, cuddly. He dresses nice… Skater fuck-boy. And he is very hot.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My friends, his girlfriend’s house, for two hours. He gave me a little surprise.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? My friend was at work and her boyfriend and I had all day to spend alone. After I took a shower, I had to shimmy past him in the doorway. My ass had touched his leg, and I heard him take an audible breath in through his nose. Things were normal until while we were watching TV, he took his shirt off and complained that it was hot. I told him, “Same I’m about to strip too.” I laughed and met his eyes, and he looked unsure. He took a small breath and broke into a small smile replying “Why don’t you?” I was blushing for a long time, not saying anything. He then kissed my neck and from there we ground until sex, different positions, yadda yadda. The way that he said “why don’t you” literally made me melt.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After that we fucked again before she came home, he told me that I fuck better than she does. Its a pain that I have to hide his hickeys from her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody. I’m keeping him a secret.
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I’m dating my current boyfriend, but it doesn’t mean anything to me that I had sex with him. So it shouldn’t ruin our relationship
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Taboo, he’s hot, I could show him that I fuck better than anyone he’s ever had.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He could’ve used a little mouthwash.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I’m attracted to men, not little boys anymore.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s cool as fuck
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