What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Africa
What country and/or city do you live in? South Africa
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Supervisor
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Nothing

Best Fuck Ever

How long ago did this hookup happen? One day

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A tall guy with a big hard dick. I didn’t know him and we met online. We made arrangements and we met at a restaurant. Then from there, we went to his place.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began online. I was the one who posted an ad saying that I was looking for a guy who could fuck me as I was so horny that day. Then we exchanged numbers and we met.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?

Actually our first day was supposed to be getting to know each other but guess what? After arriving at his place he started to touch my breasts so nicely then it led to a very deep kiss and he took off all of his clothes. He started taking my clothes off too and when I saw his big hard cock, I was like, “Damn, today. It’s my day.” I was so excited when he started sucking my pussy and I was moaning hard and cummed in his mouth. After that, he started to suck my breast and put his dick on my pussy. I asked him to give me a condom so that I could put it on him. After that, I was on top, speaking of him fucking him like a crazy and he was shouting, “yes! fuck me!” Then he came on top and started to ride me. I was enjoying every minute of it; then I gave him my pussy from behind and he fucked me so hard that I cum. At last, he started to fuck me very fast and I guess he also cum. After that, we were both tired and just lay down on the bed. Then I went to the bathroom to wash my pussy and got dressed. He gave me 1000 to thank me for the great sex that we had. After that, he took me to the cab and I went home. When I got home I was so happy. Unfortunately it was a one day thing I missed it a lot.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was so happy and everytime I think about it I become so horny. Unfortunately, I asked me not to call me anymore as it was only a one-day thing. I sometimes wish I could go to his place and do it all again. But I lost his contacts.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Revenge / Getting even, Material rewards (gifts, money, drinks, dinner…)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The fact that he sucked my pussy until I cum in his mouth.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it was a one day thing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, it did. I used to think casual sex is for prostitutes only but actually, it’s not. It also helps those who are in a complicated or long distance relationship.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? All I can say was it was a great experience. I enjoyed myself.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s good especially if you are in a long distance relationship because you are just hooking up and having sex. That’s all. It also helps the men and women who are married but not being satisfied sexually by their partners.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Casual sex is good because there are no strings attached and we just help each other.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!