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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 61
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Media
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? A little kink
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Over 50

Best FWB Ever

How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? D was a vivacious blonde with a great mom body. She was a teacher I met online. We had an on and off relationship but never had sex. She was always a bit stand offish, despite some desires.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I broke the ice months after last seeing D. We went to a movie, and then went back to my place for some wine. After a couple of glasses, we got a bit touchy. I kissed D, which she liked. During the kiss, I put one of her hands on my crotch. She was surprised, but started rubbing my stiffening cock thru my pants. I started groping her tits, and the game was on.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went to my bedroom, and D immediately liked my bed. After we stripped each other, I sucked on her lovely tits and fingering her while she jacked me off. It got better when she started sucking my cock. It was the best! D knew what to do. I ate her tasty pussy too. So good. Then the main, and we fucked for what seemed like hours. Every possible position. We were exhausted.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We continued to see each other, but only for hot sex. D would come to my house after work, suck my cock for the longest time. We’d fuck several times a week.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few friends at work

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fucking someone I’d been wanting to fuck, and she felt the same.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We broke it off. She was a bit cuckoo.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Love it

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Miss fucking D. She loved everything we did

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Enjoy it when it arises

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great site

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