What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Actor
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Queer
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 hour
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was about 5’10, lean, and Hispanic. He had short curly hair and a cute little bubble butt.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He messaged me on Grindr asking if I could blow him. He was in walking distance so I said yes.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I followed him to the living room and started to suck him. When he was close, he pulled me up and we made out. I then rimmed him before going back to sucking his cock. He then sat on my face and I alternated between rimming and sucking him. We made out some more before I sucked him until he came. He came down my throat and then I left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great. He was so perfect. I’ve never felt this good about a hookup.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Discussed STI testing history, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel more desirable
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He was as into me as I was into him. I didn’t want it to end, he was addictive.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didn’t get off, but that’s not that big of a deal
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It gives me hope for sex. Most sex I have is bad.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We’re going to hookup tomorrow and he’s gonna fuck me.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’d like to be able to have more positive casual sex. Hookups I don’t feel guilty about.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s cool and it’s hot
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