What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? România
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Hairstylist
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Dominate the man, submissive
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? I don’t count
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Best Sex Ever
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a very handsome Italian guy, with a nice haircut and cool beard and blurry brown faded eyes. He had a flame in his eyes for me and looked at me like he was about to read my mind and make me crazy like he knew my inner desires. We matched on tinder, a year before we met, but we continued talking until we met in his apartment in Italy. I wanted to meet him so much because our conversations were so deep and he was telling me exactly what I wanna hear to be crazy about him and wanting to be on my knees for him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I started to get ready at around 3 pm because I knew I would have to be at his place at 4:30 pm. But, I had too much to do to prepare so by the time 4:30 rolled around, I wasn’t ready. In the meantime, he was coming home from work and asked me if I was there since he was almost home. I told him I hadn’t left home and felt very disrespectful. I apologized and he came to my place to bring me to his place. In the car, I wanted his lips on my boobs but he was driving so I didn’t want to distract him so I wanted until we got to his room.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started to kiss and as soon as we did, he couldn’t wait any longer and he took my boobs out of my blouse and started to lick my nipples. I felt his lips until my tiptoes, I was so wet and I wanted undress him. I pulled him on the bed and started to touch his massive dick through his boxers. I was licking next to his dick, driving him crazy. I was getting wetter. I’ve never been high in my life, but I think I felt the same sensation that people get when they are high. I thought to myself, “I need to release the beast,” so I pulled his boxers down and took his dick into my hand. I looked up at him as I put my tongue on top of his dick and seeing how he rolled his eyes and couldn’t keep his head up anymore, I felt my pussy get even wetter and my juice trickling down my legs. I put his dick between my lips, sucking and savoring him slowly. He pulled my hair and pushed me down onto his big cock, making me drool in my mouth. I adored sucking him and looking him in the eyes. Hearing his moan was the next level to heaven. He couldn’t resist my teasing and pulled me on my back, opened my legs, and started to lick my clit. I started screaming for pleasure and I think his entire building heard me. I pushed his head slowly to feel his tongue on my pussy. I begged him to stop but he put his massive dick in my pussy. He fucked me so well until he came all over my face. Then we had sex two more times. He made me squirt in front of his big window, looking out the balcony with a beautiful view. After, we laid in bed, kissing until I had to leave.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was crazy happy. And everyone took notice. I was thinking about him at every moment. He is amazing. My expectations are to have more great sex experiences with him and hopefully he’ll want to marry me. I want him wherever and whenever he wants me. I think he is the most amazing guy, so fucking good intelligent, sexy, nice, cute, beautiful, lovely, amazing, and the wisest guy I’ve ever met.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Few people, they were amazed too
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? That I meet this amazing guy ever.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Squirting all over his floor
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, somehow I been attracted to girls in a sexual way, thinking that girls are better than boys on licking and pleasuring, but after I met him I don’t think this at all. I don’t think anything exists that’s better than this.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Amazing
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? We have to enjoy ourselves.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome.
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