by tanzy

Gender: Female
Age: 29
Race/ethnicity: White UK
Current location: Ireland
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Irish Government
Relationship status: Engaged
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Have kissed girls
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 22
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Beyond Bad

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Ex’s sister’s boyfriend who was 18 at the time still on school and i was 23 it was a short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met Tony through my ex’s sister Jen who was going out with him a year before we hooked up I was friends with Jen even though she was 4 years younger however things became awkward  we stopped being friends I met Tony when he was with her I thought he was good looking handsome bit young and I was more thinking how good he was for my friend however I didn’t have much contact after I stopped being frends Jen

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? About 3 months before we hooked up I got a text saying hi how are you from an unknown number I found out it was him he got my number from Jens phone and him and Jen had broke up after she started taking drugs and getting weird so he said.so we texted a bit over the next 2 months until he said he fancied me and that he wanted to meet up I was flattered but it felt wrong he was way younger than me still in school even if it was his last year met up for coffee and found him quite mature we talked and we ended up kissing for a bit after then we planned to meet for sex as the texts were becoming rauncy we both instigated it

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I gave him my address and he said he would call over on his lunch hour I was on a half day from my office job so I was in the door when he arrived he was still in his uniform which turned me off a bit I nearly said nothing would happen but we started to kiss a lot and he fondled my breasts under my blouse Ied him upstairs I laid him flat on his back took his top off undid his pants making sure he was hard which he was I took my tights and underwear off and got on him and after only 5 minutes it was over we laid on the bed for awhile and jus talked

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I was hot and I’m no saying it was bad sex buy I didn’t orgasm he did very fast and powerfully

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? He wore a condom and I was on the pill no we didn’t bring that up

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Lust I guess I would have never have thought I would have happened when he was with Jen it felt wrong afterwards

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No both sober

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He went back to school and graduated we where supposd to hook up at a musoc festival which never happend  I felt I made a bit of a mistake i we hooked uagain 2 years later but that’s another story we don’t talk now we both messed each other around in a way

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just my friend and housemate Grace she thought it was hot

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes it was for us both he wanted it and so did I I still Wonder why we did it but I was going through a being honest slutty phase over bad relationships I was looking for any male attention then

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No I guess not

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Getting lost in the moment  too feel him excited and wanting me that he came so fast was a great part the worst was he was in his school uniform

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Not really just a hav more stories off this kind I went through a lot phase off craving male attention though it meant going to their bed whenever I’m happily engaged now thank god there is stability in my life

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