by KissandDONTell

Gender: Woman
Age: 21
Race/ethnicity: Hispanic
Current location: Oklahoma/Texas
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: SINGLE
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Bffl [Best Friend for Life] Guy

How long ago did this hookup happen? four months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Not sure

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Well he has blonde hair, blue eyes, and a nice body. He has tattoos. I met them through my best friend at the time they were in the pre-stage before making it official. I had strong lust for him.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Well we used to hang out all the time. We became good friends through my best friend. Every time we got close to having sex we would stop. Because the guilt would come with it because it was still involved with my best friend. We were even neighbors so the drunk walk from the bars together were really hard not to tear each others clothes off. We had a falling out. And him and my best friend stopped talking so we really didn’t have contact with each other for awhile. Then one night he texted me out of the blue. How bad he wanted me those times and we stopped it. He told me to walk over to his house. And I did. I think we both instigated it. The planning was to come when his roommates were out so it wouldn’t get back to my best friend.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well he and I started to go at each other. All the sexual tension that build up came coming out. We took our clothes off in a rush and started kissing so intensely my mouth hurt. He then laid me down he was the second guy I ever slept with so I still fairly new at this. And he slid inside me. He came very quickly. When I was having sex with him I felt this is all I wanted for awhile is for him to fuck me, but then I go I can’t ever tell my best friend and I was wondering if I was doing something wrong. The were very intetive he knew I wasn’t experienced and was worried how I would feel. They were a good lover, but wasn’t as good as I expected we always talked about having sex and he would tell me he would last for a long time. He didn’t last long. It ended with him cumming instead me.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did not have an orgasms. But yes he did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Yes, we discussed STI history and we used a condom.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I really just wanted to have sex with him.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hook up. I just went back to my normal life. We both were involved with someone else at the time. I hope we can be good friends with him again. I also didn’t feel guilty. I think he is a good guy. We are both so busy we haven’t hung out.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told only my two good friends. That weren’t close to my best friend. They said they couldn’t believe I did it, but understand.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes it was for both of us.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No I do not.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing is that I wanted to have sex with someone and he wanted me. The worst was I should have felt bad about sleeping with my best friends guy but I didnt. I think that I am sorta bad friend.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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