What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Alicante
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Education
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Very open-minded
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

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How long ago did this hookup happen? almost five years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Couple in their mid 30’s. Met them through a well-known online swinging site and, later that day, I met them face to face in a pub. She was more attractive than him, but both of them were more than okay. Average bodies both of them and she had nice tits. Anyway, greatest kink and fun was on their & our attitude. She pulled the trigger (“I can’t wait to drink your cum and share it with my hubby” were her exact words while we were smoking outside the bar) and finally gave the ultimate OKAY.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Back in 2014 I was living and working in the Channel Islands between UK and France and they were a couple in their mid-30s (I was 29 at the time). No kids (neither did and still do I), they were just on their honeymoon after getting married, and their honeymoon consisted on cruising and crossing the channel on their cute little boat, where all the kinky fun happened. I met them through an online swinging website on a boring late afternoon. England was playing their first World Cup’s soccer game (we’re talking summer 2014) and they replied to my online proposal of meeting. They said they were going to be at this pub watching the game if I wanted to join them. Obviously, I was more than willing to.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went to their boat, did some poppers and cocaine (I blew it off the girl’s tits) and we did as many things as you can imagine which involve a bi couple and a bi guy: they both blew me, separately and together; the girl and I both blew the other guy, I did anal with the guy (I fucked him while her wife fingered herself and encouraged me to fuck him harder) without a condom; I fucked her doggy and without a condom; they took turns rimming my ass and eating my cock, swapping whenever I ordered them to; finally, the husband gave me complete control over her wife, thanking me for the fuck I had given him: he lit a cigar, started to smoke it and contemplated the action; eventually I made the girl rim me again and I came again (had come before inside the guy’s ass) inside her mouth. My cum was shared between them. I went home at about 2am but we had agreed to meet again the following day in the afternoon. We took their boat, started sailing and we fucked in the sea. They both greeted me with a passionate kiss and she immediately started to suck my cock as soon as we left the port. Sex was in many ways similar to the previous night’s and the day ended with a nice lunch in the middle of the sea, three of us naked, and telling each other our sex adventures and dirtiest secrets.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great, proud of myself, of what I had achieved as I had not done that kind of thing before (done lots of gay action and lots of straight action, but never together) and I still occassionally wank when I think about what we did today

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, To feel better about myself, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Cocaine, Poppers (Amyl Nitrate)

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Cocaine, Poppers (Amyl Nitrate)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To nobody til right now

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Three way bi fun

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The fact that they left

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Best sex is repeted casual sex. You get to know the other people in bed but you don’t get attached

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great idea

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!