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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 52
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Publisher
What’s your current relationship status? Married but not with my wife
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Passionate about giving oral sex; very attracted to larger than average labia and clitoris
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? over 150
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Big Trouble In Little China

How long ago did this hookup happen? two years

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I enjoy having massages – both legit and sensuous. Some years ago I began visiting a very discreet Chinese Health shop in my local area. There are several of these places scattered around suburban towns in the UK. There’s usually a shelf full of herbs behind the counter and a white-coated receptionist. In this case, the receptionist, ‘Jan,’ was also the masseuse. Jan was a Chinese woman, probably in her mid-thirties, pretty, quiet, very elegant, but initially quite reserved. She was also a little overweight, and always wore a white doctor’s coat over a long floaty floral dress.

I began visiting Jan for regular massages, and after the third occasion, she agreed to jerk me off. I sensed extras were available on my first visit but that Jan didn’t toss off every guy who walked in off the street. She also did a lot of regular treatments as well – acupuncture, healing candles, sports massage. She told me she only did “special massages” with trusted clients and mentioned some men tried to push her for more and she rejected them.

Over time, she told me about her life, her family in China, and her living arrangements. She was very much single, living with some other similar Chinese women and, I sensed, a little lonely and isolated in her private life. Our massages acquired a nice routine; on the turn, she would wordlessly take my penis in her hand, douse it in oil and deliver the most exquisite handjob. I don’t believe an exact fee was ever discussed, but I always tipped.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had been seeing Jan on and off for over a year when I first unbuttoned her bra and took out her breasts during a massage. She blushed and giggled but didn’t stop me, and encouraged me to suck her nipples. Weeks might pass when I didn’t see her, but when I did, we resumed where we’d left off. Until one afternoon after a long lay-off, everything shifted up a gear.

I sensed Jan was more attentive from the moment I walked into the shop. I was feeling especially sexual that day and wasn’t sure if my mind was playing tricks, but I sensed an atmosphere in the treatment room as soon as we were together. The legitimate part of Jan’s massage was delivered well – gently kneading my back and shoulders and legs – but she quite quickly started slipping her fingers between my arse cheeks and stroking my balls and perineum. This had been part of our routine, but she really spent some time on it.

While she was doing so, I slid my hand up her bare legs under the skirt and inside her knickers. I heard her gasp and let out a little cry, as my fingertips grazed her labia through a thick bush of dark hair. It took a couple of seconds for me to feel Jan’s wetness as I softly slipped a finger between the folds and drew it up and down from the base of her vagina up to her clitoris.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? This mutual touching proceeded with me almost on all fours, as Jan fingered and stroked my balls and anus. Eventually, I turned over, Jan unbuttoned her coat, and I pulled up her T-shirt to discover she’d taken her bra off beforehand. Jan’s hard, tight nipples stood to attention, as I sat up on the table, my legs between hers, and I began sucking and biting her nipples.

During all our previous encounters Jan tended to be coquettish and a little giggly rather than outright sexual. Today, there was no such pretense. She also broke her usual silence, grabbing my erect penis and telling me, “It’s huge, it’s so huge.” While this might sound like textbook porn-film cliche and the worst kind of bragging, the truth is mother nature has blessed me with a larger than average sized penis. A big cock is not a get-out-of-jail card in life: it won’t pay the bills or get the boss off your back, it also won’t mean women don’t leave you (despite those porn-film cliches). But being well-hung has paid off in both my private and paid-for sex life. It’s a talking point, and with one exception (a tiny Thai masseuse who told me I was too big for sex), every woman has complimented me on it. Despite the fact, Jan has been masturbating me for two years she had never said anything about my penis before. Now she wouldn’t stop turning it over in her hand, peering at it and staring. Lengthwise I am a little over seven inches fully hard (so hardly enormous), but I am uncommonly thick when erect, with a foreskin that bunches under the glans like a fleshy collar. My cock was as thick as Jan’s wrist as she pointed out – repeatedly. I cannot adequately describe how erotic and, simply, ego-boosting this all was. That these words and this behavior were coming from a demure Chinese woman who looked like butter wouldn’t melt and who’d been applying acupuncture needles to an old woman in a wheelchair earlier, made it all the more mindblowing.

I pulled Jan’s knickers down and slipped two fingers effortlessly into her vagina. She took my wrist and guided my hand so that I was rubbing her clitoris the way she liked it. With her other hand, she took my penis, under the glans, and rubbed the engorged head between her wet pussy lips. I am not proud to say – but for the sake of honesty I will admit – we then proceeded to have the most exquisite, intimate and mutually explosive unprotected sex. I fucked Jan on her back and from behind, and she even spent a couple of minutes on top. To see my favorite masseuse parting her heavy thighs and lowering her hairy pussy on to my stem was a glorious image. “I want it in me,” she kept saying. And I am afraid the absence of a condom was not going to stop either of us. The feeling of her cunt muscles contracting and rippling to take my size was heavenly. Jan came first, digging her nails hard into my arse cheeks, I came just seconds later, withdrawing in time to unleash three or four great spurting ropes of semen over her stomach, boobs, and neck. When I was done, Jan made me stay where I was, her hand holding my twitching cock for dear life, staring at it with a look of wonder and pure lust.

When I finally got to my feet, the pair of us were breathless and shocked. Jan looked slightly embarrassed as she stepped back into her discarded knickers and picked up her doctor’s coat. I half floated, half staggered out of the shop. But I went back a fortnight later, and we did the same again. And the same again two weeks after that. But the shock and excitement of that first encounter could never quite be beaten.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Eventually, the shop closed as the precinct surrounding it was up for development and Jan presumably moved on. I still have her number in my phone. But the last time I tried it, it had been disconnected.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Jan’s unashamed cock worship and the raw intimacy of the penetrative sex.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it took place in a massage treatment room without a proper bed.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? More honesty and open-mindedness. Sex, like life, isn’t always convenient – or safe.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A great way to share experiences.

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