What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 60
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Retired
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Six
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

Birthday Fuck Buddies

How long ago did this hookup happen? Three days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group Sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? These guys I knew from work. I am retired from the airline where we all worked together. We had known each other for about 5 years and they would always invite me to different parties or barbecues. Both guys are younger than me. One guy is 54 and the other is 52. We had never hooked up before. They always liked and respected me and I liked them.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Well, the hookup happened in Vegas as we were there on a trip for my birthday. We had all talked about sharing a suite and decided we would. One guy asked if I would like to have a threesome for my birthday. He said there was no pressure and that both guys were there to please me, and that they would only do what I wanted, so I agreed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? During the hookup, we were in Vegas for three nights. I had both guys take turns giving me oral sex while the other would be sucking my breasts. I had so many orgasms. I told one guy that I want him to lick my asshole and then finger my ass. He had lube and condoms, so when he had my ass loose enough I told him to fuck my ass too. His cock felt so good in my ass. Meanwhile, I was sucking the other guy’s cock. I told the one in my ass to fuck me even faster. He pulled out to lube my asshole some more and continued ramming in and out my ass until my pussy was dripping. Then he came in my asshole. When he finished, I told the other guy to fuck my pussy, doggystyle. He was fucking me so fast and hard, but then I told him to lay down on the bed and I got on top. I was riding his cock it was so big and hard it felt amazing. My pussy was so wet and his cock was a perfect fit. Then I got on my knees so he could finish fucking me doggystyle. I told him to fuck me hard and fast, and he was aiming to please. I came all over his cock and soon he started coming too. Both guys were great lovers and were was very nice to me. Afterward, we all talked about how good the sex was and they wanted to if they succeeded in pleasing me. They had. Then we all showered and dressed and went for lunch and drinks.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After lunch and drinks, we went to gamble for hours then we all went back to the suite. I felt good about the guys and they said they enjoyed me too. So at breakfast the next day, we talked about having more sex. These guys and I talked about seeing each other whenever we wanted sex. I really like both of them and I always wanted to see them more often.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Sterilization

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Yes, I talked to my girlfriend! She was very happy for me she said she always wanted to have a threesome!

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The best thing about this hookup was I was in Vegas Thursday night until Sunday morning and that I got to enjoy all the sex I wanted!

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That my birthday weekend was over, but both guys still work at the airline.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, casual sex is great. If all parties agree, I don’t see anything wrong with it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex works very well for me in my life. People should do what make them happy if all adults agree and they practice safe sex, go with it. Let people live their lives.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Thank you for having the Casual Sex Project! You can tell your story and not be judged. Some people might call me a whore because I had sex with two guys, but I can come back here and tell my stories without that. I feel relieved to be able to tell my stories here.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!