by Wilhelm

Gender: Male
Age: 25
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: New Zealand
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Architect
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly gay/lesbian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Submissive gay
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Birthday Party Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck Buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was tall and lean, with dark hair and dark features. He was from the islands originally (Samoa, I think). He was an old school friend of someone I had gone to Uni with. We had meet a few times, at drinks and such. We got on well, we both had similar tastes in sport and music. I had always thought he was quite cute, but I had no idea he was gay until this night.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Our mutual friend was having a BYO dinner to celebrate her birthday. We ended up sitting together at one end of the table. The other conversationalists could have put an insomniac to sleep, so we pretty much just talked to each other. The more we talked and the more we drank, the hotter he became. I started brushing my hand against his leg “accidentally”. He didn’t seem to mind, so eventually i just started stroking his thigh. His hand then did the same to mine. As the party was starting to break up I asked him if he wanted to share a taxi home. We made our good byes and jumped in a taxi back to my place.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I am a hopeless bottom at the best of times when it comes to sex. Thank god he was not. Inside my apartment he pushed me up against the wall and kissed me. We made out for a good 5 or 10 minutes, before I undid his belt. Dropping to my knees I gave him the best blow job I could. Within minutes he was moaning and thrusting his dick down my throat. I felt him tense up and braced my self, managing to swallow every last bit. We made out a bit more after that before we ended up on the couch, both naked. He lay back while I lowered myself onto his still firm cock. Facing away from him, I put my feet up on his knees, and my hands back on his shoulder’s and proceeded to impale myself on him. He guided my hips, and then gave me a reach around. I came within minutes. We were both drunk and dozed off on the couch for a bit after that before moving to the bedroom. He ended up staying the night, and fucked me at least 3 more times before he left.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, several, so did he.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None, and we only talked about it afterwards. We were both clean, which was a relief.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was horny and he was hot and up for it.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes a bottle of wine each, at least.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He stayed until mid morning. I was pretty hungover, so I kind of just wanted him to leave by that point. He tried to make small talk but I pretended to be asleep. I called that night to apologize and he was cool with it. We have fucked a few times since then. I don’t see this being a real relationship. He considers himself Bi and wants to settle down with a woman one day, and I respect that.  But as we are both single and horny we can’t see a reason to stop.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told our mutual friend, who was shocked. She had no idea he was gay, but she thinks we make a cute couple.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? I really wanted this, and so did he apparently.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general: The sex, both the quality and the volume. There was no down side apart from the hangover. It hasn’t changed my view on men or sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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